I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone? He says we "can't" work it out..but yet sends me mixed signals..
2007-03-01 19:33:57 · 4 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
indeed absence makes the heart grow fonder... been there before!
niweyz, u did the right thing by telling him you both should clear your minds first... thing is, if u both dont feel right about everything wat's the sense of sticking up together? but if u think that ur love is strong enough to conquer the awkwardness of ur present situation, go for it! i do believe that if you really want something and you give ur very best for it, you will have it! there are no impossible things in life, only sometimes there are moments where you should take a break and breath to recharge ur batteries!
2007-03-01 19:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by enitsirhc21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try premarital counseling or taking some classes on couples communication. If he doesn't want to work on it, then tell him to stop sending you mixed signals. I would suggest taking things slowly or else you might end up right back in the same routine you are in now. A good book to read is The Five Languages of Love. It is written by a Christian author so there are several references to scripture and Christianity. If you are not interested in the religion part of the book, you can just skip over it. It has some very useful information in it.
2007-03-01 19:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by mandylmit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, does he know that you are pregnant? Because being pregnant changes everything. If he knows you are pregnant, but still is not sure...then I don't know what to say. Do you love him a lot? Does he love you a lot? Consider being together. This is a big deal. Children are a big deal. You both need to discuss this seriously. You may be intended for one another and this may be your chance.
2007-03-01 19:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by shoshana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what it is that he really wants and tell him what you want.
2007-03-01 19:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by broken.bones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋