there is a lady that's older than me. We been sleeping together for a couple of months. I like sleeping with her, but I don't want to be seen in public with her. What is the nicest way to tell her?
2007-03-01 19:31:52 · 13 answers · asked by jumpinjack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG! what is it with all this hate ??? O.K . let me clear something up.......from the begining I told her that I am not in a position in my life to offer a serouis relationship to anyone. And she agreed cuz she knows my life situation. But now after a couple of month, I am seeing that she is trying to make it into a relationship...so I am wanting to know that what is the best way to clearly tell her that I am not interested in being anything more?? now if u don't have something constructive to say, don't comment! and don't judge me. U don't know where I am in my life!
2007-03-02 02:14:05 · update #1
"You are a foxy lady!! I love our KIND OF relationship because you let me have MY OWN SEPARATED WAY, and that makes me feel FREE. That is what i love of you!!, you are smart!! that's why you'll never fell in love of me!!"
2007-03-01 19:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Entrada de datos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's not trying to do stuff with you in public, you probably don't have to say anything, either she knows already or she wants the same from you.
If she is trying to have an actual "relationship" type thing then find someone else, this is likely to get messy.
2007-03-02 03:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a pretty messed up question. First ask yourself how she see you. If she cares about you and its not just about sex with her, you need to stop and think with the head above your shoulders. If she sees you as a purely sex partner, which might be possible, you arent hurting anyone even though some would argue thats wrong also. (I'll leave that up to your values though) So basically, if what you are doing is going to hurt her, there is no way to justify your behavior and you need to stop.
2007-03-02 03:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by CounselorDan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So tell me, what is it that makes you want to have sex with her.
Is she good in bed, does she fit your ego, is it because she
is older. Guess what, your going to be older some day and
the young girls are going to laugh at you when they pass you by.
Not wanting to be seen in public with her tells me you are a
real piece of work. Think your all that, think again.
You must not get many woman if you have to settle for someone
your not really interested in. Maybe she's just using you, I hope
so.
2007-03-02 03:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW ABOUT TELLING HER TO BE A FRIENDS WITH BENIFETS KINDA THING AND ASK IF ITS OK....YOU NEEDED TO MAKE THAT CLEAR IN THE BEGINING OF THE RELATIONSHIP ON WHAT YOU WANTED....DO YA THINK ITS KINDA LATE NOW THATS ITS BEEN A FEW MONTHS?????MEN I HAVE NO CLUE ON WHERE YOU GET YOUR BRAIN????WOMEN HAVE TO BE THE THINKERS OF EVERY THING BECAUSE IF NOT THE WORLD WOULD BE RAN BY YOUR GUYSES SECOND HEAD....
2007-03-02 03:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she knows cause that's why she goes out with you, for the same reason as you do. I think she's embarassed to be seen together with you as well.She has friends too, you know and believe me, they would judge her more than they would judge you for this.
2007-03-02 03:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by ParaskeveTuriya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You LIKE sleeping with her but don't WANT to be seen with her... u r probably 16yrs old and trying to get it for free....
Grow up please...and think of her feelilngs too...
2007-03-02 03:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nicest way to tell her is to not tell her.
Grow up.
2007-03-02 03:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to tell someone you are just using them.
2007-03-02 03:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why many people behave like stray dogs when it comes to sex
2007-03-02 03:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋