I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone? He says we "can't" work it out..but yet sends me mixed signals..
2007-03-01 19:24:22 · 6 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
He called me tonight and told me he loves and misses me...I love him very much and want him back but yet he doesn't seem to want to make it work..He tells me he isn't dating anyone but yet...I feel like he is..Should I trust my gut?? Do you think he will be back? I know no one can be for sure..thanks
2007-03-01 19:25:31 · update #1
first of all you need to tell him that you are caring his child. Then you two need to decide what needs to be done. After you tell him this he will need to stop giving you the mixed signals and then realize that he needs to grow up and realize what he wants out of his life...either with you or without you.
2007-03-02 02:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by LAP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y does he move away? Job? Studies? Does he ever want u to stay with him? DO u guys have common friends? Or just get any of ur friends to go to his place and check out whatever he said was true. If it's true, then y not u go and live with him? If he's toying with ur feeling, just try to forget him and get on with ur life.
But then if u feel u cannot live without him, y break-up in the first place?
2007-03-01 19:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by AL75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he sounds like a normal male..doesnt know what he wants. this is your life and your baby, i would see if he grows up.
see how it gos long distants, for a while. but honey go with your gut feeling, you have a baby coming, you need a father not a child.
2007-03-01 19:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by goolie06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seperated from my husband for 2 years and that 2 years away made us grow a stronger love. what got us back together is that i accidently got pregnant and like you i was thinking i wasnt fertile. and you know what i cherish him more than i ever have.
2007-03-01 21:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by oneandonlyness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is scared of the situation. he loves you but is not ready to be committed to you in getting married. your boyfriend is not ready to be a dad right now because he cannot figure out what he wants from the relationship. he realizes that you both are bonded for life because of this innocent child but i think that both of you need to figure out what you both want. you both say that you love one another but what kind of love is it. please figure it out soon and don't make each other suffer.
2007-03-01 19:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by basic324 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of u need to grow up or move on...
2007-03-01 19:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋