As I mentioned in one question already,after great time together and he pursuing serious relationship and wanting me to be more and more open and commited, he just, all of sudden, one mornignsent msg that feelings grew on friendship side and that he doesn't want to waste anybody times. It was shock, it came from nothing. He wasn't giving me any clue, nothing... I heard thta he does that when he falls in love.. I ams so confused and hurt.How can You just erase someone from your life over night>?? With whom You shared, with whom you slept, and he was the one who was more insecure in me, and my guy friends,,,He wanted me to open up, and when I finally started BAM!! It hutrs, like someone had cut part of you....
2007-03-01 19:17:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously he wasn't on the same page that you were on. It's too bad, but it happens. It sounds like he was just using you to some degree. Get over him, he is a waste that doesn't deserve to have you in his life. People are not always honest and forthright, and that is why you must take things slowly, do not be in a rush just so that you have some one in your life. It is far better for you to really know your self and to love your self first, then love will come to you. Because if you don't love your self you can not love some one else.
You need to make up your mind that in this life you are going to kiss a ton of frogs before you may ever find Mr. Right. So, with that in mind don't go to bed with every one you meet. Take your time and really get to know the person that you are with. And as I said get to know who your are and what your are about, so that you can love your self first. When you love your self you won't let your self get into relationships that waste your time and hurt you. Once you can love your self then you will know what love is and what it looks like, your mistakes will be less.
2007-03-01 19:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is type of people who commit in relationships when they feel they have a job to do with the other person, especially if that person has gone though tough times in life or hard times in relationships ..etc..so they come in and try to fix whatever problem other people have, and when everything is OK now, they feel like their job is done and they need to find someone new to help. May be your guy is of this type.
Whether he is or not, don't let him go away until you know what happened, and just in case he was seeing someone new, wish him good luck and find yourself a better man to love.
2007-03-02 03:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well talk to him, it seems way deeper than what it is to me. IF he doesn't crack and open up to you in a week. Let him go, if someone walks out of your life let em go, the real people that care about you and love you wouln't leave you or want to leave.
2007-03-02 03:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's better you deal with it now than later. at least you know him now and his real intentions. dont cry over someone who doesnt care about how you feel. you deserve a real man.
2007-03-02 03:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should bone his best friend. That's a sure way to piss him off......
2007-03-02 03:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Revenge, get even.
2007-03-02 03:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by dot. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋