Actually i like a guy n dont know about his liking.If i go n propose him what will happen?. I'm asking this coz his family is in relation with us. If hell say no then it would be embarrasing for me cos i'll have to face him all of my life especially in get together. I'll become a joke among his friends n his bro. What to do?Plz tell me with some advice????
2007-03-01 19:17:27 · 12 answers · asked by Goosebump 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, if you haven't already got a relationship with him don't jump straight in to proposing. You should start off small, maybe ask him out for an evening and watch how he reacts to this. If he seems happy about it, you know he likes you. If he seems to back off, you could pretend that you meant it as "just friends" so it is not awkward between the two of you in the future.
If he will go out with you, take it slow!
Good luck.
2007-03-01 19:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Hello Goosebumps,
I would not propose to anyone that I just liked, it would have to be very special and a loving relationship before you would catch me asking a question like that. A relationship with this fellow could be there but if I were in your shoes I would really play the safe road and let the man be the aggressor
I wish you the best,
Lynschell
2007-03-02 03:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by LuckyLyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him face to face will either come follow with one of three things; 1. He will tell you that he feels the same way, 2. it will be awkward and not know what to say or what he thinks because perhaps he has never thought about you like that [which isn't necessarily a bad thing] or 3. He will say that he doesn't.
Either way you will know how he feels.
Another option is to get a friend of both of yours to say something. Perhaps make a commit like "I think ___ likes you." Then he will reply with something along the lines of "nah", "I don't like her.", "really?" , something like but you can find out what he feels without the fear of the turn down face to face because if he says no, your friend doesn't know for sure if you like him or not, {wink, wink} so no harm on your part.
2007-03-02 03:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by bowieblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him out regardless of the consequences. Wouldn't that be better than torturing yourself every time you see him. What if he comes over with another girl? You'll spend forever thinking that that could've been you.
If you like him, then he must be a decent guy that wouldn't run to his family and make fun of you, right?
Goodluck.
2007-03-02 03:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm confused. You say you like the guy and want to propose to him? And he is related to you? Are you for real, or just trying to yank peoples chains?
2007-03-02 03:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pop out the question as yet!! since u don no his liking get to no him a lil bit, ask if u guys can hang around for a few drinks or sumthin' ask a lot of questions about his relationships and al that, ul get to no wat he likes an wants, mayb is jus a crash an don rily wan him. after all dez nothin rong in expressing how u fil about sumbody so jus take it easy. if things arn't going your way then be on the luk out for sum1....
2007-03-02 03:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Brattie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it you never know till you try if you like him that much the embarrassment will be worth it! if he says no it will be painful but hey pick yourself up and move on with your head held high life is all about taking risks good luck :)
2007-03-02 03:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you reckon that he will blab and embarrass you in front of family and friends, he's an immature jerk and you shoud definitely not say anything to him. Why do you like someone like that anyway?
2007-03-02 03:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he showing signs that he's into you too ? if not then i don't think you should tell him anything and even if he does seem interested it's better for you to wait if you are so concerned about how things will turn out in the end.
2007-03-02 03:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am here. What's the question?
2007-03-02 03:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋