ok ok i barely had a son pre mature 3 months early me and girlfriend have being fighting almost everyday adn i dont know what to do she has already cheated on me but i forgive her but she seems not to change she yell gives attitude i love her but i cant do this anymore what should i do?
2007-03-01 19:07:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you guys just had a baby, then maybe she's just experiencing a little post pardem depression. being a new mommy can bring out the best and worst of any woman. Do you help with the baby? Plus, preemies need special care, which makes it harder. As for her cheating on you, that is something that you have to take into perspective on your own. Do you really forgive her? If your planning on leaving her, now is not the time. She has her hands full as it is. I would wait it out until your son is in good health and sleeping steadily. This is when your girlfriend will probably calm down. If she still is freaking out after the baby gets older, the by all means, break it off. But right now your son needs you, and even though it may not seem like it, she does too. Just stick it out for now.
Good luck : )
2007-03-01 19:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ BuffaloGirl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2007-03-01 19:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it possible she is suffering from post-birth depression? If not-LEAVE!! Get out now before it affects the baby!! If she is going to be a snot and all, it will only get worse as the baby gets older. Cut your losses and move on, just keep tabs on the baby and help him in any way you can. Good luck!!
2007-03-01 19:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by roritr2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find some counseling very quickly. I think I hear panic in your post. Counseling can be had very cheaply or free if you look carefully. The Y sometimes has contacts. If you have a church they can also find some help for you and yours. But do it, it is no sin.
2007-03-01 19:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a loving relationship..for your own sanity get the heck out of here and get your own life before she pulls you down..what more does she have to do to you?
2007-03-01 19:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you heart tells you
2007-03-01 19:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋