Is it Normal for Women to Materbate??

Question

If so how often? what should you do to set the mood and is it normal to feel guilty or like you did something bad afterwards?

Answer 1

i think it is pretty normal . why should you feel guilty it's not like you're sleeping with different men everytime you feel the need to do it right ?




Female masturbation techniques are quite numerous and much more varied than those of males. Techniques include stroking or rubbing of the vulva, especially the clitoris, with the index and/or middle fingers. Sometimes one or more fingers may be inserted into the vagina to repeatedly stroke the frontal wall of the vagina where the g-spot is located. [5] Masturbation aids such as a vibrator, dildo or Ben Wa balls can also be used to stimulate the vagina and clitoris. Many women caress their breasts or stimulate a nipple with the free hand, if these are receptive areas for sexual stimulation. Anal stimulation is also enjoyed by some.

Lubrication is sometimes used during masturbation, especially when penetration is involved, but this is by no means universal and many women find their natural lubrication sufficient — some even produce more lubricant alone than with a partner[citation needed], though the reasons for this seem to be primarily psychological.
A vibrating duck. By de-dramatising the vibrator, these toys have gained a wider acceptance.
A vibrating duck. By de-dramatising the vibrator, these toys have gained a wider acceptance.

Common positions include lying on back or face down, sitting, squatting, or even standing. Lying face down, one may straddle a pillow, the corner or edge of the bed, a partner's leg or some scrunched-up clothing and "hump" the vulva and clitoris against it. Standing up, the corner of an item of furniture, or even a washing machine, can be used to stimulate the clitoris through the labia and clothing. Havelock Ellis reported that turn-of-the-century seamstresses using treadle-operated sewing machines could achieve orgasm by sitting near the edge of their chairs.[6]

Some can reach orgasm merely by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the muscles in their legs, which creates pressure on the genitals. This can potentially be done in public without observers noticing. Some prefer to use only pressure, applied to the clitoris without direct contact, for example by pressing the palm or ball of the hand against underwear or other clothing.

A few women can orgasm spontaneously, after experiencing prior sexual arousal, due to intellectual stimulation alone, for instance listening to certain pieces of music. Often, these mental triggers have associations with previous instances of arousal and orgasm. Some women even claim to be able to orgasm spontaneously by force of will alone, but that ability, if it exists at all, may not strictly qualify as masturbation as no physical stimulus is involved. [7] Sex therapists will sometimes recommend that female patients take time to masturbate to orgasm, especially if they have not done so before.

Answer 2

Yes.... very normal and sane.

How often? As long as you dont go numb or miss out on other activities.

Sometimes many girls feel guilty for masterbating because they come from strict or religious households. Some females have been known to fantasize about "rape" scenarios BECAUSE if sex is forced on them they cant be held responsible for the act.

They dont want to be raped at all... but its a way to avoid the guilty feelings. As I said, guilt is usually associated with someone or something... saying an orgasm is bad. It isnt!

Sometimes people feel guilty because of what society and culture says about it. But in these modern times I think everyone believes, that everyone DOES!

Young people are usually too emberassed to talk about it.

Masterbation is safer than sex. Its not a substitute for sex entirely... but masterbation lets you know what you like and dont like sexually. It teaches you something about yourself and your body.

As a side note... never have sex without a condom.

Dildos and vibrators dont need condoms... so its safe sex, entirely.

Answer 3

It's normal. Men do it too. It can happen as often as twice a day to once every week depending on the mood. There's really nothing to feel guilty about; masturbation isn't a crime.

Answer 4

Pretend to be taking a long shower, or wait until you're alone. Light a scented candle, get naked and rub baby oil all over your body. Close your eyes and imagine whatever you want that'll get you switched on. Lift your breasts and kiss them. When you're "wet" just do what comes natural. There's no reason to feel guilty or bad. I'm sure your parents would rather you do that then sleep with some guy and catch an std.

Answer 5

It's normal, girl. Just make sure you have your fingers or any other objects clean and sanitized. You don't want to get an infection, you know.

Well, I can't tell you how often because I don't know how often the average woman does. As a guy, we tend to masturbate often or every now and then. More than women, of course. We have a higher testosterone. And it's good for us guys. It reduces the risk of getting testecular cancer. Thus, masturbation for us helps after all (other than the good pleasure of it).

You masturbate many times as you want, I guess. Just make sure not to hurt yourself. Be careful. Good Luck and Enjoy!

Answer 6

How does 1 Materbate? :S

Answer 7

there always saying its a normal part of life for men and woman to Masturbate, it used to be thought of as evil but not in our age.
believe it or not, it's healthy to do it at least once a day to once a week as it releases stress and tension.
I used to feel bad but you should'nt, just think of it as a health aid and you'll get used to it.
also guys just do it whenever so I don't know how to answer you're question on mood as I am also a guy, lol.
take care

Answer 8

its got to be illegal to be good...just like porn should always be forbidden or else it too would be boring...where is the spice of life if you came down to the breakfast table growing up and your family was doing this during breakfast time? or while you were in study hall? Pee Wee Herman...he knew what a porn movie was for..lol

Answer 9

Sometime it can be a thought and other times you can set the mood with music, written word, or picture in your mind(dosent have to be porn).

Answer 10

Feels good, don't it?, every day, imagination has wonders. Guilty!!?? What's to feel guilty of? That you didn't do it in the first place?