Is it acually love. I am not sure but I have these butterflies things in my tummy when I am near him. If I do like him, what should I do. I am knew to this. Give me help. Dont know if I should talk to him, because I am a person who everyone thinks that I would be the last person known to like anyone. Everytime they asked who I liked, when I didnt like anyone, i would always nay no one, now they stopped asking because they know the answer. Now i do, I think, like someone. I also know if one person finds out so the who school would be amazed. What should I do? I really need help.
2007-03-01 19:01:31 · 7 answers · asked by TabeKat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its infatuation or deep like talk to the guy and see if he is interested in you if so let him know that you like him and move on from there
2007-03-01 19:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
memories. are memories meant to fade so that we will learn to move on? tis aftrnoon, as i stood looking at the scenery from the highest storey-birds swooping by and the endless blue sky (whats beyond it actually?)- random thoughts chugged thro my mind. i realised that i've changed alot from a kid to now, a half-child half-adult. Is this God's plan? the meiling i knew from my psch days has long died. i am still evolving and i wonder, years down the road, will i know who i am inside?
i really admire little kids because in all their innocence and naivety, they open up to others easily. some can play happily wif strangers at the playgrd. they are sincere in their frenships and this enables them to form close bonds of trust amongst one another. as for adults, when we meet new people, in some cases, there is a tinge of apprehension and doubt. trust? it has to be built. wad if you stab a knife in my back tomorrow? and even if dere is trust, there is no 100%? when you lose something very very precious (something that has kept you moving in life thru life's storms and rainbows), will you quietly wait for it to come back to you, believe that something better will come along or learn to live life without it despite the aching pain in ur heart?
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2007-03-02 03:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you like him..
I'm guessing, Its not love.. you barely know him right?
Get to know him more see if you like his personality then if everything is going good build up the courage to tell him you like him, who knows maybe he'll like you too. If you guys can do that then maybe he'll ask you out see if things will work out..
love will come later cause right now you see mostly his outward appearance, not the heart. Or this could all be infatuation or lust and will end sooner or later. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action - true love.
Soo... you like him.. he may like you.
see what happens.
or maybe I'm wrong, dont always wanna listen to everything people say over the internet, I'm only 16 maybe I have no clue what im talking about...
Goodluck.
peace =)
2007-03-05 14:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by ryanonymousan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know if its actually love...those are your feelings. but strong butterfly feelings can leave a lasting impression...you might call that love when youre still at school age. could be youre shy or dont feel yourself. but its a great feeling to be certain! do you want to tell ur friends? do you want to tell him? what would come of telling him would be nerve wracking, happy or disappointing. depending on all the reactions you might receive.
just prepare yourself for any reaction. or enjoy the butterflies and say nothing. peace
2007-03-02 03:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u always stay away from yourself to go ahead an ask him yourself if not u will never know
2007-03-02 03:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by playerme44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is love. Go ahead.
2007-03-02 03:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup... I think this is your first crush
2007-03-02 03:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋