everynight he gets on the computer and stays on it all night chatting to women. and i got fed up with it tonight and i threw a bottle at him, it was empty but the lid hit him in the head very hard. i know it hurt him. and now i feel so bad. but didnt he deserve it just a little bit. he hurts me everynight when he chats to people online more than he does me.
2007-03-01 19:01:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've told him over and over how i feel about. and he didnt stop. he did after i hit him in the head though!!!!
2007-03-01 19:09:00 · update #1
No I don't think he deserved it. That's considered domestic violence. I agree there are issues there, but to pick up a bottle and throw it at him? That's a bit extreme. You could of seriously injured him.
2007-03-01 19:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Speedy 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The idea that he deserved any sort of physical harm is the beginning of abusive rationalization. No one deserves that.
In regards to your additional details: Oh, well then that's okay. Make sure you do it the next time he doesn't listen to you. Or hey, why not just hit him whenever you even get the IDEA that he MIGHT not be paying attention? You know, kinda head him off at the pass? I think the real question here is why you need to ask a question on here at all? If you really think he deserved it, why are you looking for support? Just keep beating on him, it's a great stress reliever.
2007-03-02 03:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jack S 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wow, he sucks. He's got his girl right there and he's talking to other women on the net? Yeah, he deserved it, but maybe you should have spoke to him instead. Sure, you feel a little bad, but it's Ok luv, you'll get over it. Seriously though, sit his butt down and discuss it. If he doesn't yield then he's not taking you seriously. You can figure out the rest from there. Good luck!
2007-03-02 03:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pontius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, don't ever strike him in any way ever again. Why? I don't know what state you live in, nor do I know if this is true in every state, however, there are states with this law, that the person who does the hitting, it's domestic violence, and the person who does the hitting can end up in jail for a 24 hr. cooling off period. If you don't like the fact that he is on the computer with all these other women every night, why don't you just break up with him, and find somebody better? Take care.
2007-03-02 03:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize that you could have gone to jail for that? That is called assault!!! Hello, no one deserves to be hit, not with a fist or a bottle or any other object. If you don't like what he is doing then get a new boyfriend, but don't beat up the one you have.
If it would have been me you hit, you'd have been sitting in the bucket (Jail) right now!! I'll bet that if your boyfriend had done that to you, you'd have called the police and had him arrested wouldn't you??
Grow up! Get a new boyfriend or stop dating. WHAT would you have done if the bottle that you hit him with had killed him? Besides go to prison for who knows how long??? Hello!!!!
2007-03-02 03:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he did deserve it. He should not be talking to other women (unless business or something), and he deserved that bottle to the head. I think you should find someone who will be loyal to your relationship together. Translation: Dump him.
2007-03-05 17:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by zelrio28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i compleatly understand where your comming from...just the other week my b-f has been talking to some girl and i walked in and he was talking to her on the phone....and i allready have a little bit of a jelously problem so i kinda pushed his head really hard.....but i felt bad...but whatever ...I think that its messed up of him to talk all night to random girls....its ****** up....Its not right cuz it probably lowers your self esteem...but i guess it all depends on what he talks to them about.
But all in all dont feel bad....it happens lol
2007-03-02 03:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by sugurnspice01 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2007-03-02 03:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I have actually been there and done that. I hit my ex with my huge purse one time. Another time I smacked him and his eye bled. Basically, you need to leave him. He will not stop talking to women. Hitting him with a bottle will not make him stop. Do yourself a favor and leave him NOW. My ex turned out to be a compulsive liar and a sex addict. Don't take your chances. Find a safer person to get emotionally closer to. He's not worth your time.
2007-03-02 03:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why do you waste your time on him, you should dump him, he prefers to spend his time chatting with other women, would he like it if you did the same thing with other guys??? Give him an ultimatum, you or these females, yes,he deserved it, he's treating you bad.
2007-03-02 03:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋