he told he was married, what should i do? just leave him?
2007-03-01 18:27:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. he lied to you from the get-go and what are the odds that he will continue to string you along with the "getting the divorce lies"?
invest your time and love into someone who is more honest, respectful and considerate of you.
2007-03-01 18:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by D.... 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest with you, it all depends on the reason you were in the relationship; if you assumed that the two of you were going to sail off into the sunset someday and have babies, you might have to leave in order to satisfy your dream. If, on the other hand you were in it for the fun, sex and general overall enjoyment of the other person's personality, stay in it until it becomes uninteresting...why should you let the false morality of other people ruin your mood? It's his marriage, his problem if she finds out and not your doing, since you weren't informed from the beginning. Just let him know that you have the option of seeing other people as long as he's in a union like that and there's not a damned thing he can say about it.
2007-03-02 02:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Run....!!!!
If he wasn't honest enough to
tel you he was married when the
relationship began-
then he is being both
disrespectful and
deceitful.
Forget all that
crap he is trying to feed you
about...
how he was "afraid to tell
you because he didn't want to
lose you,"
ord how his wife doesn't understand him-
or
mistreats him,
or how they are planning
on splitting up anyways.......
It's nothing but lies-
and all married men who have
been caught like this-
always say something like the
above, or some variation of it.
Dump him-
He's not worthy of you.
2007-03-02 02:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married leave him. You don't want to be in the complicated mess being with someone who's married.
2007-03-02 02:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Did he earlier tell you he wasn't married? Did you even bother to ask? If the answer to these two is "NO" you can't claim the moral high ground here.
2007-03-02 02:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats crazy you should leave him how can you stay dating someone who you know is married wouldnt that make you feel like a home wrecker i mean i would plus if he lied to you about that you dont know what else hes lying about for all you know he might have children.YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM
2007-03-02 02:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by stars52006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. Find yourself a guy who is not going to lie to you. Don't be a family wrecker. Be a smart girl and leave his dumba**. Good Luck!
2007-03-02 02:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with a married guy, obviously. Better he did it now than later though eh! Sorry it happened.
2007-03-02 02:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he cheated the First .. thne he must be cheating the SECOND :) time to think sweety .. kick his balls.,. and search some one else... because he loose his trust .. and every relation based on Trust and LOVE .. so goahead leave him
2007-03-02 02:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mr XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. Yes.
2007-03-02 02:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by dark_reaction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋