The short story is we met thru a store that he manages and i usually shopped in and over time weve become good mates. We share our stuff wit each other were open with each other he is more open with me then i am. He asks 4 my opinion or recommendations like for a movie erm... we share the same interests but at the sametime we have differences which keeps us alert... And yeah over time Ive developed feelings for him and have no idea whether or not he feels the same tho. We only met last year he is older then me but age doesnt bother me but I think it does with him cause he hasnt made a move with me. Im 20 going on 21 and hes 28.
But i do want to tell him how i feel but idk how and i am 2 scared 2 and judging by what ive shared with uz is he interested in me? I mean he makes me feel comfortable,safe & carefree thats what i love about him and how hes honest with me & erm we talk 4 ages n lose track of time especially when were instore & we enjoy each others company
wat do you's think?
2007-03-01 18:17:36 · 5 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Were both single he has been single for quite sometime.
2007-03-01 18:18:47 · update #1
You should sit down and have an open talk with him. Get it out in the open and see what is going on. You can what if yourself to death about this. If he is that good a guy-what have you got to loose? Did you ever think he may have the same dilema you have and just not know how to bring it up? Don't beat around the bush with it.
2007-03-01 18:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to him casually and try to know his feelings and views on personal relationships, and you are very right that if you admit your feelings you may loose the relationship that you share today. guys are very idiots in these matters and we girls always want to express our feelings.But anyways go ahead and tell him your feelings, at least you'll know where your relationship or friendship is heading towards.
2007-03-01 18:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by gsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u use phisical body language u know like make an excuse to touch him on his hand lean in to him but dont notice it if he goes along then play the game he might even do it back to u
2007-03-01 18:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Adrienne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try waiting first, and keep on being friends. If you keep it long enough, then you can tell him. Then you'll get to know each other, so it'll be easier to tell him.
2007-03-01 18:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by clandestine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him or forever wonder.
It doesn't sound like he's going to make any moves himself.
2007-03-01 18:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋