reading about psycho MIL i had to ask myself. she is a big liar and drama queen she adds tears and fake blood pressure attacks to get her sons attention. she told me she wants me out and hates me..she made my life hell by always complaining to my husband then his mood is bad with me always why does he do this guys? and also he believes her drama cuz she tells him ahhh i will die then he tells me i hate u my mom is dying u r happy( his mom is very young and healthy shes 55 how is she old and dying why does he believe her lies?) she insults me he doesnt defend me, i ask him in closed doors why do u stay quiet he said shes my mother i will never say anything to her and also his sis r same to me, how do i make him give me attention
2007-03-01 18:09:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oooh Boy. This will never change. When they choose mom over wife it's all over. In my mind the only reason he keeps you there is for free nightly sex. If you have a job or somewhere else to go, GO. This situation will not change.
2007-03-09 13:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple,become different become more stylish,behave like you do not have any problem from them,you are strong enough to deal with all this,your husband should always stay crazy for you.any ways you can get a jhagda between your sil and mil,ask some friend to make blank calls on the land line in your house,and make a big drama out of it.stay modern and sati savitri at the same time.i will help you.to creat more stories.
2007-03-02 03:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way for you to get him to change unless he wants to. This is a common problem. He needs to see your relationship that you are a team. Both of you against the world. I think he is a little drama also if he thinks you want her dead. When she insults you I would answer her with why is she insulting you and hurting your feelings. What is it about you that she dose not like? Call her on it. If you can not then nothing is going to change. Your husbands needs to get that he married you and if he wants his mother then he should have stayed single.
2007-03-06 10:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ur husband loves u and stands with u than all shall get ok . but if t dumbo is getting in his mothers acting and is saying bad things to u than get a DIVORCE . but before ask hin if he is with u and try making him understand that what t situation is and in that do not blame his mother face on be very very diplomatic u understand me . and slowly lour him towords u and give him all t pleasures u can i mean whatever u can do be obediant good in bed and everythinh. once he is on ur side than it will be smooth sailing. ONE THING I WOULD SAY IF U KEEP QUIET IT WILL DEFEAT A THOUSAND LIES.... hope ur life gets well. how long has it bin since u guys got married
2007-03-02 02:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by ChOoCh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl just walk away. he seems to be a Mommy's boy and if my man ever told me that he hats me because of his mama i would slap him with divorce papers and get a man that wants too be with me. his mother is just mad because another women steeped in her place and it seems to me if he cant stand up for you then he doesn't need you. a man should always be there for his women and if his mommy has that much control now it will never get better an he will die alone because she will never let him go
2007-03-09 19:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by luvnlifelol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"if you can't defeat, them Alie with them"have you hear that phrase?your husband was raced that way and unless he moves away and get to see and learn other way of showing respect to his mom....i don't see nothing than saying "yes" to everything his family says. now....can you handle,and learn to live that way?i couldn't.good luck.!!
2007-03-07 14:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by 8agm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋