my girlfriend of six months broke up with me cause I showed up at her house even though she has told me that she doesn't like it a few times but I was there to surprise her with very nice Gold chain with a Diamond pendent I got for her. Anyways she wasn't home when I got there but I did leave right away, I sat in my car and park on side of the street cause it was snowing really bad and I live about 60kms from her. so I was waitin for it stop and hoping that she will come home before then but didn't and send me a text message telling me to go home cause she wasn't gonna be home anytime soon. I didn't and then she called me freaking out about how I should get off her street so I did, anyways she text me later that night and broke up with me, and I have been doing accepting it but I really like her and I really would like to have her in my life and I just don't know what to do. any ideas guys. 15 points best answers
2007-03-01 17:58:19 · 23 answers · asked by onelove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like a nut case. Let go and be glad you got rid of her so easily.
2007-03-01 18:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's just weird! She's not that into you. You should let go and find someone out there who is better than her. You sound like a great guy and deserve someone better. She sounds to me that maybe she is cheating on you. I would love a guy to unexpectedly show up at my house to give me a gold chain with a Diamond pendent. There is no way i would fight for her!
2007-03-02 02:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~ Girl ~ Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello? What's up with her? You giving a surprise gift and staying there on the street with all the snow and waiting for her is very sweet. Any woman's heart will melt about the idea. Why the hell she doesn't want you there? Let her go it will be a blow on you if you'll still fight for her anyways she's not worth it. You'll find a better one around.
2007-03-02 02:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by chiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude but let her go i mean sh** dude you drive all that way to give her something like that while its snowing like he** and you dont want the whole time driving to be a waist so u wait then she sends you a text telling you to leave and you dont then she calls you freaking out sounds to me like she could see you which tells me one of two things either she is at a girlfriends house hainga "slumber party" or shes at her neighbors which is a guy and there doing the naughty or posibly she thinks your obsessed personally i think shes cheating and she obviously doesnt feel the same for you as you do her just let her go shes not worth it and anyways im sure that there is a lot of other hott girls out there that would be more than happy to get gifts like that peace out bro good like
2007-03-02 02:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar experience like you, dude. Don't worry, she was just having a passtime with you. If you can drive 60 miles to visit someone in snow with something costly... you deserve better. Go find a nice girl, and this time make sure she's a bit younger in attitude! Try to show off this in front of her.
2007-03-02 02:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by El-Foyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt respect her boundaries when she first told you that she didnt like you popping up at her house. if it was snowing really bad and you went out there anyway, i would think you intended on being there for a minute. you sat outside her house, hoping she would come home? you were spying on her.
there are no make up ideas for you. you messed up. in the future, respect the request made to you and your relationships will be more rewarding. call to ask before you come over...and if you come over and no one's there, go home. or, if the weather is bad, car break down, get ill - whatever...get a hotel room if you are so far away from home. get rid of trying to superimpose what you want on someone else.
2007-03-02 02:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
according to ur story, i can see that she's kind a introvert person.. How long have u been dating? Is she a very private person? She looks like having many secrets or part of life that she has never told u. Or maybe she's a paranoia type of person who is always cautious - she thinks u as a threat that can ruin her small haven. She just doesn't want u to enter her inner life.
Anyhoo, How's her characteristic? I think ur the one who knows her best
My advice is fight if she's worth it
2007-03-02 02:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by w@NEe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with a girl that tells you to go home and even freaks out because your over at her house? Let her go... sure you want her in your life, but come to the realization that she doesnt want you in hers. Find a girl that will cherish every second that you spend together. Relationships are meant to be enjoyed by the seconds... Good luck.
2007-03-02 02:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Dude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok.
Basically she sounds like she's done with you. Return the pendant and get your money back.
Sounds like you've dropping in without calling. Personally, I don't like it when people do that to me so take the hint and stop doing it.
The good news is that you're a free man so get out there and find someone who will apreciate you for the person you are.
2007-03-02 02:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y making her feel so very important and as if u r nothing? and when for once if she told u not to come over it was ur first mistake but now when u r lingering around her u making fool of urself. she isnt in for u and u hardly matter in her eyes. if she thinks anything abt u she will definitely gonna come back and then u can resolve with ur probs. but for the moment give space to both of u and take it easy.
2007-03-02 02:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go or back off for awhile if you're going to 'fight for her'. Sounds like she needs some space and you're coming on too strong. Six months isn't that long of a time and I'd be pretty creeped out if some guy I was dating (when I dated) was sitting outside my house waiting for me.
2007-03-02 02:05:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋