Basically, I've been corresponding by e-mail with this girl that I am very interested in getting to know more for about a week now. The e-mails between us both are very positive, and she's said that she finds me attractive too, but when I offered to take things to the next level, by possibly her giving me her number, or me giving mine to her, she said that she'd rather just take things slow, no rush.
My problem is that I don't see why we couldn't take it to that next level? Should i just move on because her head isn't where mine is obviously, I mean, what's the big problem with giving a dude your digits or vice versa and talking to him on the cell, if you like him? Right? What should I do?
2007-03-01 17:47:24 · 13 answers · asked by Jeff C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you shouldn't.
Have some dignity and move on.
2007-03-01 17:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...lol. well either this person ur talking to is a really shy female or a very sick male. SO 'she' doesnt wanna talk over the phone... so why not converse with 'her' on a messenger. Email replies are slow when compared to chatting on a messenger. I sure hope 'shes' not a guy. if 'she hesitates further,just move on, in my opinion,dont take internet relationships too seriously.nothings better than the real thing. Gd luck mate!
2007-03-01 17:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sean Lawlor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will possibly be slightly extra affected person along with her. You hear all forms of comments recently approximately loopy human beings online - and persons can substitute into psycho stalkers - I even have some loser it fairly is stalking me real now on IM! I in simple terms exchanged one digital mail with him and he won't permit it bypass. each and every week isn't a protracted time. provide it a pair extra weeks and then try back. if she nonetheless says no, then flow on b/c all you're gonna get is a penpal yet you have in simple terms been speaking a couple of minutes so provide it slightly longer.
2016-10-02 06:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey guy, why the rush. Girls are still at their thinking stage, whether you are playing with their feeling or it's for fun. Time is needed to start a beautiful relationship. So, be patient. After some time, girls will felt comfortable giving you her cell phone no.
She won't give u her no, does not meant she didn't like you. Something girls unable to explain.
2007-03-01 17:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only corresponded by email then she may be reluctant to jump into anything right away. She may want to get to know more about you at a safe distance first. There are a lot of people who pretend to be someone they aren't online and that may be something she wants to make sure of first.
2007-03-01 17:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jersey Girl 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she said 'take things slow' for whatever personal reasons. she didnt say she wouldnt meet ya. If she's very attractive...maybe you wont take the time to get to know her...just be all over her too fast. maybe she's had bad experiences? if you dont want to wait around for her to feel comfortable with you. then move on. peace
2007-03-01 17:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's only been a week and maybe she's not that interested. She's probably talking to several different guys and she's just seeing what happens. It's no big thing.
Keep looking.
2007-03-01 17:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy, take your time. If she means anything to you, you will. Sometimes the most meaningful relationships take the longest to begin, so no worries. Perhaps she'll yield to your charms soon, but don't be pushy or you might just push her away.
2007-03-01 17:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Pontius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I see. I would respect her wishes, but cool it down considerably. If she's used to getting regular emails from you, she'll miss them when she opens her email and says, "What? No email from Jeff?" Be just as nice as before when you email, but take your time in doing so, since she's in no rush. Maybe things will heat up then.
2007-03-01 17:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you think it time to exchange phone number so you can call each other and make some arrangement to see each other, tell her if she has a guy in her life she should let you know and you all can stop wasting each other time.
2007-03-01 17:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couple of reasons or hints
Are familiar with the character Wanda in ln Living Color? Look it up if you are not familiar, you might even find some videos and you will get my point
2007-03-01 17:53:21 · answer #11 · answered by chromegrill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋