well i had a bf and we broke up. i tried to be just his friend and he wont let me. now he does things to me and wont own up to it. like today he told me he would follow me to take my daughters car back to her then he would drive me back home. well he never showed up and didnt call. so when i finally talked to him i was upset and he said i was upset for nothing. well i had been waiting on him for hrs. i told him he had upset me and he said he wasnt upsetting me. he knows i hate that kind of talk. so im not dating him anymore and he is still treating me like he did. so i cant be around a person like that. so am i being rude for not wanting to be around him anymore. cuz basically he got mad at me cuz i got mad at him for not showing up or at least he could have called and said he wasnt coming. what do you think. there are other reason why i dont want to be around him but thats another story.
2007-03-01 17:40:30 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound very frustrated. There is definately no reason to set yourself up for frustration or any other negative feelings for that matter. Just simply tell him politely that you think it would be better if you don't see each other any more, even in a friendly way. If he still doesn't get it, just say that you want no more contact, period.
I mean, there are enough stresses in life that you don't need to add more for the sake of "courtesy" .
Hold your ground.
Good Luck.
2007-03-01 17:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by 123me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One always should try to surround themselves with nice and respectful people. This can be applied to friends as well as lovers.
It sounds to me that your ex doesn't want to be just friends and will not get over losing you. Sadly some people doesn't know what no means. What you need to do is sever all ties to the man. Unless he is your daughter's father, you don't have any reason to keep talking to the guy. Put your foot down and tell him to saty away. If he won't leave you alone, then you may have to get a restraining order against him. Hopefully it won't get to that point.
2007-03-02 01:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's a jerk most guys are. Don't call him or ask for favors. Move on your bound to find someone better who's a little more responsible.
2007-03-02 01:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rambo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a turd. All of the signs are there.
Don't associate with him anymore. He will just make you miserable.
2007-03-02 01:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boot him out of your life, he's not worth the hassles.
2007-03-02 01:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes run like hell.Find someone you can depend on.
2007-03-02 01:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by southcoastgirl01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
??????????? if you broke up with him because he is a jerk, then why ask him for help? he doesn't want to be friends, then stop trying. move on.
2007-03-02 01:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no.
While your at it, look at your whole question and see how nuts it
is and then,
Just say no.
2007-03-02 01:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by welder guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you have any common sense at all...like at all?
2007-03-02 01:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋