quick, interesting question about SEX!!?

Question

i'll be having sex for the first time...and I need all the advice I can get (i know the basics, but pointers that are aquired through experience)



also, i know it will probably be a lot of exercize for me, the guy, and am worried i will start to sweat during sex. is it normal to sweat, and will it smell??????

Answer 1

oh my god. sex is suppose to be hot and sweaty. if you are not hot and sweaty after sex it means you didnt last that long.

Answer 2

Is this a guy or a girl . If its a girl ..just to let you know , its going to hurt a little. If its meant to be ..everything will work itself out. Dont get to hyped up about it or when the time works it wont work. and yes if you are having sex for a long period of time you will sweat but i never notice a smell. Having sex the first time , i dont think you have to worried about that. Dont forget , use a condom.

Answer 3

First time experience will be the most exciting memory for you in this life!... It's probably the best offering the nature has for us. But the key is to be relax and not expecting too much. Nature has made out body/mind so that it experience itself. Remember this body is much more ancient than this mind, so it "knows" how to do sex already. So U just need to relax your mind, and then the body takes over and U experience a timeless, weightless state easily through sex.

I'm a guy and I experienced it many times. But it's bit different from the experience you girls have with it. I want YOU to experience it at it's best. But there are few things we need to consider before we venture out for a casual sex.

1. Guys want it fast and they are finished once they ejaculate their cream :).

2. Girls wish it to be slow which would lead for a more enriching orgasm, not just a release.

So you need to find a matching point in these two different paces. The solution is to spend more time in foreplay. This helps the guy to hold his *** for "longer" time while you eventually reach a state where orgasm is near.

Let me share some more important points;
1. The more you keep aside your religious/social taboos about sex, the better you experience it.

2. Sex has three gradual states:
a) lust-> The most obvious desire. It's the lowest form of sex which gives the thrill of most sexual encounter. This is the most gross form of sex and is turning to kinky these days! It can lead to more grosser form like various sexual perversions. There is nothing wrong in it...just be casual and have fun.

b) Love-> The next step of lust is Love. it's subtler and it leads to better friendship between two bodies/minds. It's more of mind than body. It knows how to give rather than snatching from the partner.

c) Devotion-> the highest form of conjugal association. One completely lives for the other. This is spiritual sex.

I hope this helps you to have fun ... and more. If U wish U can mail me.

Answer 4

yes, it`s perfectly normal to sweat during sex. oh about the smell that you`re worried about..you & her will be way too busy to be worried about that or even notice it...you`ll be off in another world..trust me. Don`t worry about it, sex is an ongoing learning experience..trying new things everytime..me && my husband try new things all the time. Don`t freak out i`m sure you`ll be great! It is a lot of exercise Trust me; it gets exhausting..but it`s fun so who cares! Hope this helps && G00D LUCK!

Answer 5

Bodies sweat in sex, it is work. Hard work. But I have yet to hear anyone complain about that.

First remember you can get pregnant without penetration. By “you” I mean both of you, for you both have a responsibility to each other. If you take on adult pleasures you must be prepared to pay adult prices should a problem arise.

Use protection. Get into the habit of always using a condom. You know all the facts on this I am sure. The only 100% guarantee against AIDS, STDs or pregnancy is abstinence.

You can change your mind and say NO whenever you want before the deed. Just because you agreed to have sex does not mean you have to go through with it if you change your mind.

If this is the right partner for you, he will understand. It is natural to have butterflies in your stomach. Even so, your body may not cooperate even if your mind wants to be having sex. Your body has an opinion too!

Maybe your body refuses to obey because in your heart you truly feel that this act should be part of marriage. Maybe there is another reason you do not understand. What is important is to just do what feels right to you. If he changes his mind, respect his wishes as you hope he will respect yours. Throughout history, females have been conditioned to a virgin state and it might be harder for you to “give it up.” This can make it slower for a woman to rouse.

Chances are, no matter how prepared you think you are, you won’t know what you are doing or if you are doing it right, but try not to worry. It sort of all flies out the window the first time! There is no right or wrong way so long as it is consensual. Chances are it will not go the way you plan, so only plan the birth control, time and place.

If it is your first time it will hurt when you break the hymen but that is a one-time thing. If possible, make him stop for a moment while you adjust to the pain that quickly passes. When you resume, ask him to go slowfor a moment or two. If blood stains are a worry, there is usually a little blood, remember a towel.

Since this is his first experience, chances are very very good that it will be over so fast he will probably not be sure how it felt. This is not a problem. Most experienced lovers can have a fast release if they have gone for a long time without. Once the cream is skimmed off the top, the next time, hopefully within a little while, he will have the stamina to last longer.

But there is still no getting around the fact that sex is messy sweaty business. That is part of the glory of it. To be honest a couple engaged in the deed is pretty funny to look at. It is noisy too. The better it is, optimistically, the louder it gets. You want to have your man moaning aloud and you want hear your own breath loud and hard as you work.

When your body is roused sexually, your scent changes and becomes a turn on for your partner. THIS is normal! Pheromones are part of what attracts the opposite sex. Might I suggest that you avoid garlic or fish or asparagus for a few days prior to the event? Eat fresh pineapple and/or parsley. These foods freshen the scent of your bodily output during sex.

You will be, of course, freshly showered.. Many men, however, find the scent of a woman, her natural scent, arousing beyond belief. The most expensive perfumes are no comparison to your natural healthy clean odor. In the west we are far too sanitized and think our natural body odor is dirty. This is not the case at all.

Your scent changes with arousal as will his. It becomes muskier. This is part of what arouses you. It has nothing to do with being dirty. Once you know your partner you can tell if they aroused just by their scent. It is very easy and pleasurable to incorporate clean up with part of your love play. Cleaning yourselves can take the form of a shared shower, always a treat, or even a wash up with a warm wet cloth.

The thing that makes a woman a good lover is paying attention to her man. Even if he releases very quickly the first time, and this happens to all young men, be tender and loving. Just a warning, some virgin males ejaculate before even being touched. Just the knowledge of what is coming can be an overwhelming stimulant for them.

A good lover appreciates the scent of his sweetheart. A good lover is not afraid to bring pleasure to any part of the body, but this usually takes time and experience. Don’t worry. Good lovers are rarely good without the input of a member of the opposite sex. This goes for women as well, of course. By the way, he may be working hard, but the woman does not just lie there. You will be working just as hard much of the time.

We also like eye contact and to know we are special. I imagine your partner is as nervous, if not more so, than you. Smile, so you will both be learning together. Communicate with him. You will both be shy this first time but that is why the first time is so special. Pay attention to his responses. Does this make him catch his breath? Does that make his body jerk a bit with pleasure? Just ask what feels good. “Mmmm, do you like this? How does this feel?” A man who looks to his partner’s responses is a shoe in for a good lover. Women like attentiveness. Men are not quite so fussy LOL. But it is a good way to learn to be a good lover.

If you do not respect your partner, or you know they do not respect you, you will have regrets. Even if you love this partner, you may still have regrets. Be very sure this is what you both want. No matter how you felt before doing the deed, it is guaranteed you will both feel differently about each other after.

Not in a bad way, just more emotionally attached. You have both lost something, your virginity, and it is natural or normal to have strong feelings over such a matter.

Answer 6

it's good to sweat, and you probably won't be sweating from the exercise if it's your first time cause you probably won't last very long, but you will be sweating from the excitement and the closeness of your bodies, you won't smell, but trust me, you will like the sweating part. try to pace yourself, and not get so excited because that will make you go off really fast, try to control your breathing and think about how good it feels all over your body instead of just focusing on the one area (down bellow) that feels good, and try to think about other things than how good getting off is going to feel.
switching your positions around some will also help you last longer, go on top for a while at first, and then turn her over, and get her to go on top for a bit, do it from behind, and with the both of you laying on your sides with you behind her.
have fun....be safe, and good luck!!!!!

Answer 7

It is normal to sweat, but not all guys do. Most girls like sweat! It smells good when sex is involved.

Answer 8

hey lil missy! how old r u? r u depressed?cuase 1st time sex is not planned it happens! what r u sweating?
hygiene is important before sex. if ur funky dont any1 want a funky person but another funky person so either way u win. mightsmell more then the funk of just getting funky with it. well if ur funky some 1 told u. enjoy ur self but b responsible.

Answer 9

Don't know why u think u ready but will answer ur question anyway:

1) protection: Birth control, Condoms,.....pregnancy kit.

2) Certificate:...of what u may ask- his health status &urs!! HIV negative..look for it!!!

3) yess u'll sweat, but if u showered, and used ur usual deoderant, it wont be what u not already use 2

4) towel, or face cloth: believe me u dont wana be looking for that when u need it most....its gona be messy.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

do not worry but wear a condom and be carefull sex for the first time schould be special and to wait for when you get married is evan more so just rember sweating is part of it and no you will not smell just rember to wear protection