how do you get over a guy that just broke you heart? and what do you do if you think he was really the one for you?
ok so i am 19 and me and my boyfriend were dating for about 17 months and on day he just told me that it is over so now what do i do?
2007-03-01 17:32:09 · 21 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sleep with his best friend or sister.
2007-03-01 17:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Find someone else to talk to just to take your mind off of him for sometime. A person who breaks off a relationship so sudden like that, I'm sure they'll be coming' back to you real soon again...with a real good explanation why.
Throw everything out that he gave you or reminds him of you. Bag it up and put it in the attic or something, you don't want to be reminded of him while he's away. Go out with some friends, have some fun while you are finally free and still can, without the person that is cruel enough to hurt you. And if he were the one either he will be back some day like I said before, or he wouldn't have dared to break you like that in the first place. Thats harsh.
Just don't try to do anything stupid that you will later on regret in life....such as the stupid answers above. Don't go on sleeping with the world because you have a broken heart. That will just lower your own dignity darling.
2007-03-02 01:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i dated a guy for 2yrs...we broke up almost a year ago. i spent time with friends, working out, family, find someone else. if he is the one you will be togethr when the time is better, if ur not meant to be together u will find someone so amazing and wonderful u wont even remember the other guy and how love felt with him...my bf of 2yrs was horrible and broke my heart 24/7...i am seriously with the love of my life now!! i am so glad that other dude broke my heart b/c now i have my true love and i couldnt be happier. so go out and be yourself, live for you and forget about guys, the right one will come!
2007-03-02 01:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by girlladyperson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking about all the things you hated about him. After a month or less you will be so glad the relationship is over that you are ready to go out on dates again. Worked for me!
2007-03-02 01:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear if u think that he is the ideal
than the ideal boyfriend should be with u
in all your pains and gains
u know what , if he loves u trually
then he will not leave u and he
will be really sorry to dump u
inshort he will miss u a lot
leave it 2 the fortune
or to the god
ir u are made for eachother
than god will meet u
2007-03-02 01:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Spicy Ketchup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new one. I am not being mean but it is the best way to get over the past guy. Well have fun with your girlfriends for a couple days and then find a new man.
2007-03-02 01:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by marinesprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear don`t be hopeless...i understand taht it`s not easy to get over a guy whom you loved dearly...... tears would translate what i`ve been through ....i share your pain dear.... but then i would believe that perhaps he was not the one ... perhaps if you were with him you would have gone through bad times...
And always remember this dear:
If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to begin with.
I believe you will find the answer if he is the one for you....
If he is not the one....believe that you will have someone who will go beyond your expectations....
2007-03-02 01:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, let him go and move on with your life. Forget about him and there is no such thing as "really the one for you" !!!...wake up and do not live in fantasy.
Forget about him and time will heal your hurts over time. Remember, do not live in past memories, just leave them in the memorial and move on to create memory !
2007-03-02 01:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by m_linda77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on. As time passes by you will heal and realize he was not worth it. If you really wanna get over him then i suggest you get rid of everything that reminds you of him. It makes it easier to move on. No point in hanging on to someone who does not want to hang on to you!
2007-03-02 01:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, Im so sorry. But thats life. There is a prince waiting for you to find him. Now start looking. Prayers to you.
2007-03-02 01:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep you chin up and dont blame yourself. Its hard and it will take time. but just to let you know, just cuz it doesnt hurt anymore doesnt mean it wont be there in ur heart or u wont think about it.
2007-03-02 01:38:16 · answer #11 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋