I been with my gf for about 4 years now but recently, I noticed this other girl in class. I dont know whta to do, I mean that girl in class is cute but for some reason her quiteness and dedication to her work really catches my eye. What should I do in this situation. I like my gf too!!!
2007-03-01 17:23:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well 4 years is a lot. if you have a crush on another girl doesn't mean you'll love her like you love your girlfriend. if you really like that girl in your class then try talking to her and get to know her first cause looks can be decieving. she may look nice and quiet but she might actually not be your type. since you've been with your girlfriend for 4 years then it must mean you guys really have something special together.. don't mess it up just because of a crush. but if you find out that you really do like that girl then you might have to be honest to your girlfriend. think about what you want to do before you do it.cause one wrong step then you won't be able to go back. good luck! :D
2007-03-01 17:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is a long time, Do you love your girl friend? It is normal to be attracted to someone else however it is different to act on it. If your feelings are stronger for this other girl then you owe it to your girl friend to be honest i think she deserves it after 4 years with you. you need to decide is the relationship you have now a good one and does she make you happy or do you like the other girl more and take a chance and it may not work out in the long run. Sorry my advice is not clearer or better just my opinion think what you want and your heart will make the choice.
2007-03-01 17:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a GF too and have this crush on this other girl. It's normal. I was told that you can go out with a girl and still have a crush on someone else. Just keep your mind on the one you really love and everything will work out in the end.
2007-03-01 18:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by philowe1980 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't have two at a time. Try to go over you feelings. Maybe you're just infatuated with the girl in your class. You still love your present Gf right? and besides your relationship with her has been bonded for 4 years, that a 'sorry' if you give it up!
2007-03-01 17:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by chiz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u need stay wit ur gf cuz u kno her for 4 year than new girl in ur class...just dont look at her...AND DONT CHEAT ON UR GF...good luck
2007-03-01 17:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by BloodWolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with your girlfriend for 4 hyears, then why do
you have a crush on some one else. and you need a answer
you need to be honest with her, and do what is right.. time to
let her go or leave the other girl alone.
2007-03-01 17:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who do you like more if your tired of your gf then its time to change but if you still feel spark stay with here k and ...........dont cheat( hey this is coming from a 12 yearold k)
2007-03-01 17:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by singingbeauty9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your girl friend are already on for 4 years .... so you know her better alredy while the other girl... you dont know her yet.... you cant just see that one in the face of somebody... it doesnt mean that if shes like that shes good alredy...
2007-03-01 17:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by imsupersavannahxxi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be with ur gf only...don't try to play with ur gf's emotions..b'coz she loves u too.... it happens..that u r having crush on another girl...but u already have a gf...so be with ur gf only...
2007-03-01 17:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay with ur gf i mean you build all those relationships and feelings and i bet you guys gone throught the worstest and bestest together...
2007-03-01 17:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by karen t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋