OK. The situation is we hit things off, going great. When it comes to a connection/committment, I get the sense she isn't ready. Things get rocky. One day she tells me she needs to be on her own. We continue to talk. Any time anything regarding "relationship" talk comes up, she gets anxious, anxious enough that she alludes to ending all contact w/ me. Fast forward several months to now, we are talking daily, we have a relationship, one where there is at least enough trust that I will see her often and talk daily, which is a huge step from before X-mas time. Thing is, I don't know what, if anything, I have done or am doing differently now and am having trouble shaking the idea that I want to know what she sees differently about me and us now. Should I ask or just leave well enough alone and take it for what it is? I am not interested in a fling w/ her. I want something serious.
2007-03-01 17:20:44 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to polish this up, I am happy with our relationship now, but I don't think I am doing anything differently than I was 3 or 4 months ago when she decided a relationship wasn't possible. Now it seems to be great with her, too. I'm not upset, just dumbfounded.
2007-03-01 17:27:33 · update #1
If you want something more with her, you need to find out everything you need to know...do not leave well enough alone,you should find out how she really feel........your heart is in the right place, but you do need answers instead of wondering and assuming.
maybe she wanted to know you better.
2007-03-01 17:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate smoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋