Why do guys feel the need to try and have sex with a female every time they lay down in a bed with her? Even if it is spoken in the beginning nothing will happen. But goshly they still try. Help me understand.
2007-03-01 17:18:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SO YOU PPL ARE TELLING ME THAT YOU ARE SO SIMPLE MINDED THAT YOU CAN'T JUST LAY IN THE BED ARE ON THE COUCH ARE EVEN ON THE FLOOR WITH TOUCHING EACH OTHER. THATS CRAZY. EVEN IF THE FEMALES SAY NONONONONO BUT YOU STILL TRY. CRAZY.
2007-03-01 17:48:58 · update #1
Actually they feel the need to have sex with a female even when they aren't laying in bed with her, but that seems like an ideal opportunity to fulfill said need.
I don't know what the point is in trying to explain it to you, if it isn't already obvious to you then it's doubtful you will ever understand.
2007-03-01 17:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a woman to have sex they need a reason for a guy to have sex all they need is a place and that how it is, they think with the little head and that all! you need to make it very clear to them that NOTHING is going to happen and thats the way it is! If he don't understand hes outta here! The best part is holding a girl close and just lay in her arms for hours at a time I knew that onthing was going to happen, just holding her was just fine!!! Tell him if he ever wonts to sleep with you,then do as you say!!! Or find someone else!!!
2007-03-02 01:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. If you lay in a bed with a guy, what else can he think? It's like taking him to a restaurant; of course he'll think you're going to eat. What else can he think? It's not their faults. No matter what you tell him, a bed is a bed. People have sex in beds. Just stop laying in beds with them. And they won't think "sex" (as easily)
2007-03-02 01:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by brian123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's simply human nature. It's programed in our minds to pass our DNA. Also, the levels of Testosterone are raised when a male is around a female, thus giving him an even bigger need/want to procreate.
Thing is...even though it's human nature, it's also human nature to be able to control our most basic of urges.
2007-03-02 01:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you taking them into the bedroom then, or making them lie on the bed with u?? (u are kinda leading them on u know)
Men will try, to see where ur boundaries lie, to test u (its in there nature) & the fact that some women they have met was all talk &no action, or moral standing
2007-03-02 01:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have her in bed, you have to at least try because she might get caught up in the moment! What are you doing in some dudes bed if you don't want sex?
2007-03-02 01:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by DB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you want to take a guy to bed but not have sex? Forgive me for thinking that you are insane.
2007-03-02 01:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well who did say that they should stay in bed. We have greatly associated bed with cuddling up with someone so better stay out of it!
2007-03-02 01:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by chiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't ask my lady for sex. I mean, we can always play around in other ways than having intercourse, you know. And it's still fun.
2007-03-02 01:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and why would just lay in bed with a guy?
2007-03-02 01:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋