She told me she didn't want to date me because I'm not her type. But then I showed up at her house and talked to her mom and dad and they said I was perfect for her. So I keep asking her out again and she always says no. Sometimes I follow her to work and ask and ask and ask! And then last weekend I found out she was going to the movies so I showed up at the end of it at her car and gave her some roses and candy. She still hasn't said yes? How do I force her to date me?!?
2007-03-01 17:15:28 · 24 answers · asked by Joel Is Depressed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's pretty awesome what you've done. Some people may call this weird and disturbing but don't listen to those people because what you've got going here is obviously TRUE LOVE. Come now, she just doesn't know it yet but she truly loves you and she's just probably afraid to show it. What you might want to do is, whenever you can, take some of her hair, get it ANYWAY you can, and build a doll that looks just like her with it. Obviously what will happen is that she'll see it and realize that you are willing to go above and beyond for her.
Have you ever seen 'Single White Female'? That is the greatest romance movie you will ever see. I suggest you rent it and then take some tips from it because one of the characters in the movie really show some prime examples of what love is.
Does this girl that you like have a boyfriend? Well, that boyfriend no matter what is a skumbag compared to you, please understand that. He's probably alway mistreating her by faking being nice. What I suggest you do is somehow sabotage their relationship, if she has a boyfriend, by getting one of your friends to hook up with him and then take pictures. Now, that may seem illegal and nutty, but then again, it's true love and you MUST DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN for true love.
Good luck and may god be with you. He probably already is so don't worry about it.
2007-03-01 17:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy ! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no offence.. but her parents must be wrong to think that you're perfect for her. You sound like a sweet enough guy, but seriously, have some dignity! You cant force or manipulate a person to like you. Love flows willingly and comes from the heart. Respect her and dont cross into her personal boundaries. She made it clear enough , dont stalk her. Be yourself, get over her and find someone else. A forced relationship will not be a happy one. There are plenty of fishes left so one day you'll find the right one that will like you to. Good luck dude!
2007-03-02 01:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly i believe that you should change your name :
"Joel is depressed"
How can someone fall in love with a guy who:
Feel tired all the time
Wake up early and cannot go back to sleep
Can`t be bothered to do anything
Find it hard to get up in the morning
Eat too much or too little
Accident prone
Find it hard to make decisions
Cry a lot
Feel hopeless about life
Come on dear....be optimistic rather than pessimistic....
And also if this girl said that she is not your type don` be discouraged...Perhaps she wasnot the one for you...Perhaps if she would have accepted you would have gone through bad times with her.....
A girl may fall for you by Your smile....don`t be depressed...i`m sure you will come across someone who is really for you...perhaps beyond all your expectations....
And remember:
Erase Depression in your life !
2007-03-02 01:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look man i know you've heard the expression there are many fish in the sea well take it to heart. If you have to try this hard for a girl to like you, you are simply making her like you less and less everytime you do something like showing up with roses and candy. Besides if your putting that much effort into dating this one girl who doesn't want to date you there are plenty out there who would love the attention that you are giving this girl.
2007-03-02 01:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Perry C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee....If your into FORCING her, why don't you just get all the small stuff over with and kidnap her?
Watch the movie "Boxing Helena" and remove her limbs.
Dude, It's not about you. If she doesn't want you she doesn't.
Here is another way to put it.....It's in Joke form.
Knock Knock. (you say "who's there")
The girl you like....(and, you say "PLEEEEASEEE! OH Pleease!
I want you! I'll dddooooo anything...PLEEEASE!!".)
Then she runs for her frigging life!!!!
Man, your really spooky.
It's really good for you, REALLY!! That I'm not her dad.
In situations like this when YOUR STALKING someone.
If it was my child, No offense to anyone, but I'd have to make you
understand.
So, lets hope for your sake you can understand the word "no".
It is for you own good.
May her Dad be of sterner stuff.
2007-03-02 01:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by welder guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, let go. This is a good example of a girl NOT playing hard to get... she's playing "Dear God, get this nutcase away from me!!" Seriously, the more you chase her around, the more freaked out she'll become, and she'll like you even less. Or, go ahead and continue what you're doing, but don't be surprised when a restraining order shows up at your front door.
2007-03-02 01:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Paul T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, never think that it's your initiative to MAKE a girl go on a date with you. If she doesn't want to go on a date then she doesn't want to go on a date.
Second off, from your description, I don't want to be rude, but it sounds like you're stalking her.
If I was in her shoes and a guy was following me around like that I'd be creeped as all get out. So give her some space, let her decide. There are plenty of girls out there.
2007-03-02 01:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Big C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you can't FORCE ANYONE TO DATE YOU. If she's not interested then you guys are obviously not meant to be. It takes two to tango. If not, then you can just forget about it and her. Move on and there are other girls out there that you'll want. Don't go so extreme 'cause the signs that she is showing towards you are so...not signs of love.
2007-03-02 01:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get good grades, go to a good college, get the best internship and go to a good grad school, then at the class reunion 10 years from now she will love you but you will have enough money to pop whichever lil honey you want and not just the ones who want you so you won't even want her.
GET OVER IT BRO!! I been through it myself so I understand how it feels like the end of the world but it really is her loss. The best way to force her to like you is for you to take care of you. Live your life, have fun, work hard and you will get everything you ever wanted.. trust me...
2007-03-02 01:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyluger 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You probably creped her out by now. Parents are the last people to know who is right for somebody. I am certain she will never ever want to go out with you by now. Following her and trying to force her will land you in jail or with a restraining order. Drop it now while you are ahead.
2007-03-02 01:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋