and if so how should i deal with it?
ive realised a lot of times when i went to a new school i would sit by my self rather then sit by new people and try to make friends. however i would always make friends, people would come up to me. and i used to think these people were pathetic when they walked up to me. i also think all guys that try to flatter girls and compliment them etc a pathetic and i would never do that, or take initative to talk to a girl. i have never asked a girl out and could ever imagine asking a girl out (im 20) however i have still hade 7 girls ask me out in my life. i think these experiences have spoiled me into assuming im too good to do ny of this but now no girls are talking to me and nobody is being friends with me. how can i change. also please dont judge me i know i sound like a jerk but understand this is like sub concious and i realise it is not good and i want to change
2007-03-01 17:12:13 · 6 answers · asked by dd d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is possible.
2007-03-01 17:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want friends? Do you want girls asking you out? With your type of mentality, I am unsure if you would. Maybe you are more intellegent than the average person and you can not tolerate ignorance. Nowadays, many people are just plain dumb and their life is based on dumb crap, such as Britney Spears shaving her head; so and so said this and that, she broke up with him, he cheated on her, he doesn't love me, and so on. I think I got off topic, anyways- you need to change your perspective on people. Stop putting others beneath you, you are above nobody else, no matter how dumb or poor or what ever they are. If you truly want to change, then you will, in due time. And the girl issue - start talking to girls yourself, don't wait for somebody to talk to you. Hope this helps..
2007-03-02 01:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that exact same way. Fortunately for me though, the most wonderful girl in the world asked me out, i said "yes" and I broke out of my shell. I don't see how that helps though...
YOU take the initiative. If people don't talk to you, talk to them. Be sincere. Don't make asshole remarks. Think about what you say. Do favors for others. Gain a "nice guy" reputation. You HAVE to change. Just do it. No one will think bad of you if you treat others kindly.
2007-03-02 01:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by brian123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change the way you think.
2007-03-02 01:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To those people, I say get over youself...
2007-03-02 01:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so spoiled brat!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 01:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by shizuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋