I feel like I was used. I love someone sooo much and I understand the meaning and feelings of love...yet he does not. He is going through things right now and says he needs not to be in a relationship...but I gave him sooo much. Now I feel used. And it's hurts more than I ever realized.
2007-03-01 17:08:16 · 18 answers · asked by pink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over him. You will find someone who loves you as much as you love them.
2007-03-01 17:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by caddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is that you gave the relationship all you've got. If it didn't work out, maybe you should see that as a sign that you were not destined for each other. That is life girlfriend, no matter how painfull an experience is, you should accept it with grace and see it as a learning curve. It will pass in time.
2007-03-01 17:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt used and hurt too....
i felt like being an idiot believing what was said to me....how could i be so naive?How could i be blind and to such an extent?
I know that love is blind but not being used by a person and not even realising it....
How can someone kick someone else feelings?
I believe too that these persons will come through this situation a day and the person they most unexpected will do that to them....i`m not taking about revenge.... but the saying which says:
"What you sow is what you reap"
2007-03-01 17:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'est la vie. There are many fish in the sea. Don't fall into this trap of thinking that every guy you're dealing with is your true love and you're meant for one another. If every time a guy isn't as committed as you, you can't take it as a personal insult. You just gotta move along.
Sure it can be painful, but that's what we're here for. Nothing to do but move along.
2007-03-01 17:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by puretake38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The events that we bring upon ourselves,
no matter how unpleasant,
are necessary in order to learn
what we need to learn;
Whatever step we take
they’re necessary to reach
The places we’ve chosen to go.
So do not feel bad and used, take lesson from this incident and try and make a good life. Just think because of him you understood what loving is all about and be thankful.
2007-03-01 18:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by gsha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did no longer say how previous you're, yet judging out of your strikes, you sound somewhat youthful. First i could kick him to the dimensions back, he sounds to immature to have any variety of tangible emotions, love shouldn't harm. 2d, if I have been you, i could completely focus extra on your practise. After analyzing your letter, it sounds such as you're putting extra time right into a "going nowhere" relationship than schoolwork. And that's the practise you could desire to fairly bypass after real now, no longer boys. have faith it or no longer there's a lot of time, and once you're older and extra mature, Mr. dazzling will come alongside and take care of you with the honour you deserve. yet for now positioned the intense relationships on carry, in simple terms be acquaintances with adult men, and alter into knowledgeable!!!!! Oh yeah, and him asserting he could try to get into your pants back.......he's in simple terms a pig, and in case you permit him, you would be fairly sorry. never, ever, do this to hold close directly to somebody. never, EVER!!!!!
2016-10-02 06:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time that what happen you love someone that does not
feel the same as you do. and yet it does hurt. but it will get better
just learn from this and move on. you deserve someon that will
apprecate and love you.. stay strong and hang in there.
2007-03-01 17:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't be like those other ignorant people who are expecting you
to move on and get over it.
Man, it isn't that easy.
It is love not time that cures all pain.
Focus right now on your goals, what you really wish to accomplish.
People are always going to get in your way.
Wait until you get to college.
The real men are there. -not only are they smarter and wiser, but you realize that
they are responsible. Just focus on yourself first.
2007-03-01 17:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by watnowgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the hurt will pass
you need to put up a wall now lets boys in ur life but keep them on the other side of the wall till ur ready to let them over then you can let ur love out
i know that sounds silly i hope it helps
2007-03-01 18:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by terry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry Babe.. I feel for you... in fact I'm going through the same thing. Its like the more you give the less you get. But you'll be ok. Just hang in there.
2007-03-01 17:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋