I don't like him. He's my friend. But I usually don't think about my friends all the time. There's nothing unsual going on that would make me think about him constantly. I just can't get him out of my head. There aren't any feelings other then friend. It's quite frustrating how much I think about him. Why can't I stop thinking about him?
2007-03-01 17:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you might consider him more than a friend, but not enough to like him as a boyfriend. so maybe thats y hes always on ur mind.
2007-03-01 17:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are not starting to become attracted to him? Take some time and think about what you find attractive in a man (and not just the superficial stuff but character traits as well). Compare this to your friend.
If this is not the case, has anything changed lately (I assume that he has not always been constantly on your mind). Has he or you done anything that would make you think of him more often? Perhaps you are especialy greatful for something that he has done, something recently (or whenever this started) makes you concerned for him, or perhaps a little guilt over something?
Then again, you might just be going crazy : )
2007-03-02 01:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by BoranJarami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you don't realise how you tell whether you like someone as more than a friend...THIS is one of the ways...sorry to tell you, but it's sounds like you have it for him pretty bad. What kind of things are you thinking about him...if theyre like hot things and whatever, you're probably attracted to him...but maybe only sexually. If it's just the way he smiles or the little things he says...you may be in what is the start of love!
2007-03-02 01:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a male friend who is your best friend. Dont you think about your girl best friends. I know they are usually on my mind cuz i care for them and wonder whats going on with them. But because its a male..depends on what you think about. If your thinking about stuff like friends do then its because hes your best friend but if your thinking about it in a relationship way. maybe there is something more but you just can find it yet. I guess its something you should really find out for yourself if it bugs you.
2007-03-02 01:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have feelings for him but you dont think about it too much. Your not aware of it and you dont want to face the fact that you do like him! you dont have to get so fustrated with the problem. Try more of hanging out with your friends to take your mind off him.
2007-03-02 01:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lovelygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is very important to you. That's OK. I have a male friend who is very important, but I am engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. Let him be your friend. Men and women CAN be friends, you know?
2007-03-02 01:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking and dont fall in love. No one is worth it.
2007-03-02 01:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is everything you are looking for in a companion
2007-03-02 01:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by ljjmjd3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because subconsciously you want to procreate with him.
2007-03-02 01:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by puretake38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only answer could be....may be u love him...just be very cool and think about this...
2007-03-02 01:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋