ok, i don't party, drink, or do drugs id rather spend the night with a girl talking, going to the movies, bowling....etc, or grab a bite, than party or get drunk. would you go out with me?? : )
2007-03-01 16:52:27 · 22 answers · asked by AbU sAmRa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LMAO, why r u asking if thats a turnoff, unless your only interested in girls who find drugs, parting, and drinking exciting you have nothing to worry about, but you do have to watch out for becomming the "FRIEND". If you act more like a buddy to them, they will not see yuo romantically. You sound like a sensative, nice charming guy, and thats awesome, but dont get walked upon. If a girl seems at all interested, then you'll have to be EXTREEMLY CREATIVE, to keep her interested. If you like a girl, and she is single, and not just moping around for the guy who wont notice her, start by being her mysterious valentine, girls fall for that. Be corny and funny, like "roses r red, violets are blue, ive never seen any gal cuter than you! (or sweeter)" GL
2007-03-01 17:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by srilanka_everquest 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends. If you're ultra uptight and strictly refuse to ever have a drink or do anything "unwholesome" it might turn off a lot of people. But if that's just not your thing and you're still confident it's ok.
As long as you still exert a bit of masculinity. But the kinds of guys who want to talk to girls all night and share your innermost feelings in an emo sort of way right off the bat usually aren't overly successful.
2007-03-02 00:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by puretake38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately. You have morals, and thats never a turn off. For the girls who just want one night stands and not remember what they did you might not be the right guy. But for a girl whos worth your time, you are. You have the ability to have fun without it revolving around getting drunk and high. These days thats a little harder to come by.
2007-03-02 00:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know you, so I wouldn't go out with you now, but I'd rather be with a guy that isn't busy partying, drinking, or doing drugs. If they can be wise in those ways, they can be wise in love. They're more trustworthy. :-) Anybody who says that bad guys are better than good guys have it messed up.
2007-03-02 00:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definitely not a turn off. And the activities you listed sound like they require more people skills than "social-scene" skills. You just need to find a girl who is confident and mature.
2007-03-02 01:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by gerberdaisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. constantly partying can be a bore. but dude it is good to live alittle and go to a party now and then. You are NOT required to drink or do anything you don't want to. It is GREAT that you live by your own morals but understand not everyone is like that.
2007-03-02 00:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by rosemaryponst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, most girls like someone to just cuddle up to and watch a movie. Not every night has to be about getting drunk and partying, sumtimes its fun to be lazy!
2007-03-02 00:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Adddison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if my boyfriend is like that i will be totally happy. Definitely not a turn off. You can be classified as endangered species! Hope you will find a girl as nice as yourself!
2007-03-02 01:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by dreamymoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew you most def!!! Stick to the way you are! There are many good girls out there that would love to go out with a guy like you!
2007-03-02 00:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by dont worry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would go out with you (if i didnt have a man) I dont do any of that stuff either. what has happened to having fun and enjoying each others comapany?
2007-03-02 00:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by FOXY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋