So last night me and my boyfriend were laying in bed and i asked him if he would still love me if i shaved my head or gained 600 pounds. He said he prolly wouldn't date me becuase one if i shaved my head and i didn't have lukemia or anything like that then i was prolly going through a crisis and that if i gained 600 pounds i was just being lazy>?...wat do you think is that fair?
2007-03-01 16:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by Adddison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've asked my b/f if he would still love me if I shaved my head, like four years ago, haha... but he said he would.. i think it's fair to say that if you gained 600 pounds you'd be lazy... i mean, come on... nobody gains 600 pounds by being active. And the shaving the head thing, hair grows back, so I'd be more lenient on that, but whatever... does this question even matter? I mean, are you planning on shaving your head and gaining 600 pounds?
2007-03-01 16:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about reasons why he would love you in the future. He loves you now Do you really expect to be 600 pounds or shave your head for no reason at all. Lots of people get married and their appearances change for one reason or another but you are talking about extreme things. Appearance isnt usually the reason someone stops loving a person. There are alot of more serious things that would cause this. Go with the flow and see what happens dont worry about things that may never happen.
2007-03-02 00:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by itybittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth being... It is not an unfair answer. I am a female and if i gain 600 lbs i would not expect my loved one to find me attractive what so ever. humans must find something attractive about someone to even consider copulating. the shave head is just an opinion. Everyone has one and it is good to have your own and not bend to everyone else. Just think about this would you still "sleep" with your boyfriend if he was bald and 600lbs? would you even get aroused? if so good for you if not you now understand what he means.
2007-03-02 00:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by rosemaryponst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he has a point...why would u shave ur head if u didnt have cancer or lukemia and its pretty hard to gain 600 pounds. i want a girl that can keep care of her health, so that way we will live long together...ur bf is smart. i give him props for that answer(clapping)
2007-03-02 00:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Interesting... That doesn't sound like love to me. When I married me wife it said in the vows for "better of worse in sickness and in health", etc. It doesn't say anywhere unless you shave your hair off or gain 600 pounds, lol. I'm not trying to be mean but it just doesn't sound like he's ready for a commitment. best of luck to you.-James
2007-03-02 00:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats funny because i asked my boyfriend the same thing a while ago, and he said he would love me even if i was fat and bald. I guess you just got a really honest guy. Consider it a good thing.
2007-03-02 00:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like some "unconditional love"
2007-03-02 00:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to break you 2 up but love is unconditional. He probably doesn't love you enough.
2007-03-02 00:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋