i dunno what to do.. my boyfriend is going to the mall tomorrow with some of his "friends" that i think are really immature and i think he might get in trouble. and if my parents hear he got in trouble they will make me dump him. help?
2007-03-01 16:24:23 · 13 answers · asked by smiling.hearts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THE KEY TO A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS CONVERSATION. TALK TO HIM LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM GOING TO THE MALL WITH HIS FRIENDS. HE'LL RESPECT YOU MORE.
2007-03-01 16:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by danaehammond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you anticipating trouble when it hasn't happened? You THINK his friends are immature; you THINK he might get into trouble. Do you not trust him at all? And how would your parents find out about it? Are your BF and friends going to rob a store and be on the evening news?
Sounds like you're more worried about the fact that he may have fun without you/going somewhere without you than you are about him getting into trouble.
2007-03-01 16:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has it never occurred to you that if he got in trouble he should be in trouble with you, regardless of what your parents think? How, exactly, except shoplifting or painting graffiti would a kid at a mall "get into trouble?" If you want to date a thief or a sociopath who doesn't respect the property of others , then you have greater problems than your parents (who are right, you shouldn't date him).
Bad boys are bad news.
2007-03-01 16:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by drg20202004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go to the mall, and see how he behaves. If he can't figure out how to behave on his own, maybe you really do need to dump him and find someone who knows how to stay out of trouble.
2007-03-01 16:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by raininberkeley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have faith in your boyfriend. maybe he has sense enough to stay out of trouble. and if he did get into trouble, just explain to your parents that he is still young and still learning the ways of life. as long as the trouble is not so serious coz if it is, better think again, girl. the future of both of you will be at stake. better still, just tell your boyfriend to take care.
2007-03-01 16:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all boys as teenagers are imature. as my father said expect the worst pray for the best and you will end up somewheres in the middle. so yes he will raise hell. but ur parents wont find out so u should be ok going by my fathers advice anyways.
personally if you love him tell him not to do anything stupid and explain why. if he loves you he wont. if he does anyways then take it into consideration that maybe he wasn't meant for you then. relationships need both parties to make them work. it is give and take.
2007-03-01 16:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by brian w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a lot that you can do, he needs to learn from his own mistakes, and it is only a "might" at the moment, doesn't mean he is going to get himself into trouble.
2007-03-01 16:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it...we guys get in trouble all the time and your parents cant keep you from seeing him
2007-03-01 16:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u truly love him
try to convince hime
wats goin to happen will happen
and if he loves u
he will stay
2007-03-01 16:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start trusting him sometime. It's his life after all.
2007-03-01 16:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋