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Question

flirt? this guy i go to church with, i want some ways to flirt. i don't want be s l u t t y doing it, but just kinda flirty. what do guys like? and when you guys say touch him when he's talking...what does that mean? how do i touch him? thanks

Answer 1

there are lots of ways you can flirt . you can flirt verbally .. or even with your body language however since he's a guy there's a chance he wont recognize the body language ..

You don't have to be slutty to flirt .. sometimes just saying hi to someone you like out of the blue is considered flirting .. talking .. and smileing as him while you're talking .. acting flirty ...

touching when you saying key things like your name or somethign you really want him to pay attention to .. You can lightly lay your hand on his arm or put your arm through his or even grabbing his hand .. you get the picture ..

touching him while he's talking might grab his undivided attention like say he tells a joke and you laugh while laying yoru hand on his forearm whlie you're slightly bending over from laughing .. stuff like that ..

Answer 2

I'm not a guy but i may be able to help...
When flirting the #1 rule is not to force yourself on the guy, he doesn't want to be chased!
Smile and make eye contact when you talk.
If you touch his hand when he's talking it MAY make him feel uncomfortable... depending on the guy. Be yourself, just let your words flow and your actions flow with the words.
check this site out:
http://www.ehow.com/how_15903_flirt.html