I'm like in love with this guy. Hes perfect in everyway and im not really sure if he likes me back. I don't want to tell him because im worried it will ruin our friendship. What do you think i should do? What would you do?
2007-03-01 16:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe there is a part of you that knows the truth. You need to develop your intuition...
THERE ARE NO SURPRISES WITH WELL DEVELOPED INTUITION.
Listen to the part of you that you simply think is a silly little voice.....it's much much more than that.
Your relationship might just be a great friendship but keep in mind that many great loves started as great friendships....if you are able to spend time with him and you seem to have a good time....and he seems to have a good time...then just let it unfold.
Being friends means you've got something wondeful already established.
Relax.....it will happen if it is suppose to happen....
really....
and remember to be funny whenever possible...
learn to tell a few jokes
2007-03-01 16:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Michael Timothy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you like a friend. There is all ways a chance of him liking you as a friend and not a girlfriend. Think about it...If you don't want to ruin your friendship, then don't ask. If you realize that he likes you and that u are willing to give up a great relationship, then ask him.
You have to take risks sometimes
and for the record *no one is perfect*
2007-03-02 00:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing your age would be helpful, but this would be my advice. Just ask him if you are "friends or more". If you are truly friends, asking the question, no matter what the answer is, will not ruin your friendship.
2007-03-02 00:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. He'll say yes or no but it shouldn't ruin your friendship.
Tell him you love him and if he's not interested he'll be gone faster then Carl Lewis. Guys don't like to be told that someone loves them if they've never went out with them. Thread carefully on this.
I hope it works out for you.
2007-03-02 00:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by thelivinglegend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him sooner or later. As it is, your friendship will be destroyed by your hidden feelings for him. So if you choose to not tell him, you'll probably lose him as a friend, too.
2007-03-02 00:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell. You love him and want as a lover. So even he accept your proposal ( I wish).....you will become lovers not friends. So no need to think behind. Just propose. Otherwise it may late.
2007-03-02 00:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by dibesic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont be afraid to tell him your feelings, if you realy love that person don't be afraid to talk to him, try and try untill you succed,
sometimes we fell shy beacuse of some reason, but to be honest ha, don't overdo yourself ok!!
2007-03-02 00:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by kent r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋