Where are the best places to meet such people? Besides the obvious, because the obvious doesn't seem to be working.
Paul
2007-03-01 15:59:49 · 27 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
why don't you go to a good christian church
and take a look around there
2007-03-01 16:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by popsicle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Besides attending church functions regularly, I might suggest hanging out with Christian friends whenever you have time. Lots of people are introduced to their future spouse by a friend or family member, so let people know that you're looking and they might help you find a nice gal. If you're into the online dating thing, you could try some of the Christian dating websites such as Ave Maria Singles or CatholicMatch.com. Good luck!
2007-03-01 16:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by LvsBtxPtr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found my wife in a church. She was the piano player. She went to church every Sunday and Wednesday. I thought, "How could I go wrong?" I prayed about it and we got engaged. During our engagement she cheated on me, then wanted to leave me. When I got my life back on track after being devastated, she came crawling back. I prayed about it and felt lead to forgive her (believing this was the Christian thing to do). We got married and had a baby girl. Two years later my wife decided she didn't love me any more and left me for our babysitter's son! I said, "I thought we agreed that divorce would never be an option." She said, "I didn't know I'd feel this way now and there's no need for any further discussion." We divorced. She married the guy and he dumped her a year later. She came back to me and I just laughed. She said the Bible teaches us to forgive. I said, "...but it doesn't say we have to TRUST!" I declined her offer to get back together. Now she's married to husband #3 and she's not even 35 years old yet.
THE MORAL OF MY STORY:
Forget about all that "christian" crap! Marrying a christian doesn't guarantee diddly squat! Just find a woman who makes you feel complete! The rest will fall into place. (If you're a christian, it naturally follows that you'll only be attracted to women of like faith, anyway, right?)
I'm now very happily remarried to an extremely faithful and loving wife who I thank God for every day. I'm even thankful that my first wife left me, because without that I would have never known the joys of being with a faithful woman who understands commitment. Oddly, I didn't meet her in a church and I'm quite certain that she's far more christian than my first wife will ever be!
Good luck! I hope you find that love you're looking for. But don't get too wrapped up in labeling people because we are seldom what we seem. Read about the wheat and tares parable in your Bible and you will understand.
May God always be at your side.
2007-03-01 16:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? History of the Philippines books say that 99 or 95 %? Whatever. Anyway percent line of 90 Christianity covered the Philippines when Spanish explorers came here in the Philippines. Goodluck in your search for a wife Mister(Even though I am a Christian, I am only 10 years old)!
2007-03-01 16:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Cheska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to locate some Churches in your area that are having social nights first of the month dinners ..IE Pot Lucks... and start going to them. Make some lunch dates and start from there.
Walking the true Christian life and being a good Christian is how you find a Christian wife.
2007-03-01 16:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by MissChatea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, then these things shall be added unto you. Are you ready to become the husband that God wants you to be, or are you just looking for someone to take care of all your needs? If you were to meet a nice Christian girl at church, what is she going to get by marrying you? If you go looking for a wife and aren't walking in the Lord as you should be then all you will find is trouble. Get close to God, and He will find you the perfect wife. He will also make you into the perfect husband for her..
2007-03-01 16:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if the obvious isn't working maybe you're looking for the wrong things. You're looking for a good Christian WIFE...if she's a good Christian Wife she is probably very happy with her good Christian Husband. Why not try a Good Christian SINGLE lady.
2007-03-01 16:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask us, ask god! The guy im dating now is a christian, the 1st christian iv'e ever dated *ive dated alot of people, & it literally fell into place all by itself and instantly, i didnt even HAVE to look, kind of like love at first sight. pray about it, but do not search. If it is meant to be, you will know immediatly, for whats in gods plan is not neccesarily in our own. Just know he wants the very best for us. But christians are all around, Do not be afraid to show your faith, for that is what other christians are drawn too, (PS its SO attractive to meet a christian man)
2007-03-01 16:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you think good Christian women hang out? I would say church, and things that would reflect Phil 4:8. I met my husband at Christian College. Remember, seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not unto your own understandings in all you ways acknowledge him and HE WILL DIRECT YOUR PATHS!. Trust in the Lord to know the desires of your heart. He isn't an ogre but you have to put him first. It will happen. It didn't happen for me until I understood that truth then I met my husband. We are both Chrisitans.
2007-03-01 16:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Paul,
If you become the best Christian brother that you can be by reading your Bible daily, associating regularly with God's people, talking to God several times each day in prayer, asking for God's holy spirit to help you to always avoid bringing reproach on God, giving of your time unselfishly to the teaching and training of others about God and his purpose for the earth and mankind, you willl find out that Christian sisters will notice you and all that you are doing and they will begin to take interest.
2007-03-01 17:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By obvious, I assume you mean at church...
Well, have you ever thought about asking some of your church friends if they know anyone who is single that you might enjoy meeting? Everyone loves to be a matchmaker...especially the ladies. Give it a shot. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-01 16:03:10 · answer #11 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋