im 17 and have a beautiful son and thinking about another 1. my boyfriend wants another 1 too. we r finacially ok, i have my GED, and im gonna get married to him someday. we live on our own and i love being a stay at home mom. im just wondering if im making the right decision for myself.
2007-03-01 15:50:37 · 13 answers · asked by miss michelle 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If you guys can afford it and your not going to hurt yourself medically. i personally dont see why you shouldnt have another one if that what you both want. Children are our future and our pride in joy theres nothing wrong with having another one. You seem like your a great mother. I know some people that shouldnt have had any at all. But you both made good for yourselves and deserve to be happy. If another kids that makes you both happy then go for it!!!!
2007-03-01 15:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by loveliliekisses 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. Even though you already have one, doesn't mean you should rush into another one. You are young and have plenty of time to have more children. Things may be OK now, but what happens if down the road you have at least two children and things don't work out between you and your BF? Can you afford to support yourself and two children on your own? I'm not trying to discourage you, I'm just trying to advise you to really think about it thoroughly. Also, going from one child to two is a huge step. Either way, good luck with your decision and hope all turns out well for you. ;o)
2007-03-01 16:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Luv2HelpYou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetie you are still young, and granted you already have a wonderful baby boy, But you need to think about a few things first, like 1. are you ready for another baby I mean one child is a breeze but it does get harder with two children, I know for a fact I have three kids and if one of them or even two of them have to go lets say the doctors it takes me a good hour just to get them ready to go . And I remeber how easy it use to be having to get my son in and out of vehicles with two or more it seems more like what's the word I'm looking for.........well it is more like a job that you really hate having to do, after doing it so many times you start dreding having to go anywhere .dont get me wrong I love my kids they are the best things that ever happened to me, and I dont regret any of them, But see I am 29 I had my first child at the age of 25 and my second child at the age of 27 two kids by age 27 it was tough even with help but I couldn't imagine having two kids at the age of 17 . But who am I to tell you what to do, I could be wrong maybe because you are so young maybe you can find it more easier then i could, so to stop this before it gets too long (too late huh) but my suggestion is this is your life why are you asking others if you should or shouldn't sounds like to me you have your mind made up so do it and i wish you the best for you and your kids.
2007-03-01 16:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Frenchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre financially stable and know you can handle another child (emotionally as well as financially) I dont see a problem with it. I would get married first though. Its so much easier if youre married because then the father doesnt need to sign the certificate of paternity and all that other stupid crap that they make you do if youre not married. And you wont have to worry about anyone going after your bf for child support payments. My friend had a kid out of wedlock and 7 years later her man got arrested unexpectedly for non payment of child support. He lived with her and his kid and supported them and still got arrested because there was no record of him ever giving her actual child support. It was pretty stupid but things like that happen all the time. (By the way they are now married : )
2007-03-01 15:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would not have another one this quick. You are too young to have 2 kids. Yes you already have one but why add to it now? Why not wait? At this rate by the time you are 20 years old you will have 3 or 4 kids. I would wait a couple/few years before having another one just focus on the one you have now.
2007-03-01 15:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-05 03:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It fine to THINK about another one. But you should wait until you are more stable. Do you think it will be easy to find another job with only a GED if something happens to the job you have? Or do you think you could handle it on your own if something were to happen to you boyfriend. Could he handle it if something were to happen to you? Do you have any kind of savings?
2007-03-01 16:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by cane_holder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might make it more difficult to go to, and afford, college/university, eh?
Yes, you should do that too, even to be a stay-at-home mother. It -- being a mother -- is not supposed to be a job for people who can't do any better -- take some pride in it!
2007-03-02 00:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girly
i think if u want another baby then u should have another baby. especially if u are financially stable. babies are a gift. im 22 and i still havent had any but me and my husband are working on it. so i say goodluck and if u decide to have another baby then congrats. =)
2007-03-01 16:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by яєηєє ℓσvєs вεiηg Hi§ ßα߀ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like someone else said wait alittle longer but its totally up to you if you are happy and you can afford it go for it.
2007-03-01 16:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋