Why does his pictures of girls bother me...?

Question

I was on Facebook and just for fun I did a search on my ex-boyfriend to see if he had Facebook. He does have Facebook,But I DIDN'T add him as a friend. I did, however check to see who HIS friends were. He had 25 friends and 10 of these were girls. There were only 2 or 3 pretty girls, but it still bothered me. I felt hurt seeing these girls, I dunno why? Why did I feel this way? We only dated for a month ( but we saw each other a lot), then HE ended it. It was a beautiful & innocent relationship, it never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hold hands, it was sweet. Also he would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. Also, he ended it ONE YEAR ago, yet a month ago he called me & asked me to go see a movie w/ him. I went, he picked me up & after the movie he said he wants to "see me every once in awhile." But I have not heard from him since our hangout. He's 26 while I'm 21.

Don't get me wrong, I'm a pretty girl but I dunno why seeing those girls on his Facebook bothered me? He's Chinese & all the girls on his page were Chinese, while I'm Persian. How do I get over this?

Answer 1

Well, he's your ex so you have to get over it. You also have to stop cyber-stalking him and move on with your life. If you don't look you won't see.

Answer 2

Ur being possesive nothing more than that. N u havn't forgotten him yet...

Answer 3

it bothers you for the same reason as it did in all your other questions...nintynine point nine percent of them concern your ex. your not over him. you need to be...work on that.

Answer 4

maybe they're his cousins, or relatives?
and u still have feelings for him, that's why u were CONCERIN with the girls............

i think.........