I have been with this guy on and off for the past 6 months. The first time we ended it was because he thought we were moving to fast too soon. Then I went to the bar he works at with another really hot guy and lo and behold he was at my house that night. We talked and decided to give it another try and take it slow and things have been going good for the past 2 months then all of a sudden on tuesday he broke up with me because he said he was not in love with me yet and did not want to lead me on. I know it is not someone else he is not that type of person. I wonder sometimes if he has problems with commitment because he has not been someone in 2 years and he is 30. I just do not know what to do. He is supposed to be coming by 2 nite to bring me somethings of mine is this an excuse to see me? I just do not know what to do. Please help.
2007-03-01 15:37:55 · 5 answers · asked by Darling girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know for a fact there is no one else. I have told him love does not always just happen. He wants us to be friends and see what happens. Because we did it all wrong. Jumped into bed together way to soon ya know. Should I try to be friends and work on building that friendship and see what happens?
2007-03-01 15:50:03 · update #1
You have been dating a guy for 6 months and broken up twice. The second time he said he didnt love you yet. What kind of relationship is that. Why date if he dont love you. How do you know there is not someone else? How do you really know he is not that type. My suggestion is start dating others guys and forget him for awhile. If he really does want a relationship he will keep in touch. If he doesnt. GOOD BYE CHARLIE
2007-03-01 15:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by itybittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have feelings for him tell him if he wants to be with you he will . if not and you know what it he has of your's is just tell him to forget it and tell him not to comwe over make an excuse .just dont see him . if you do and this is just a B oo T call then i think you may be felling worse then before .just trying to help . lol , problibly not doing so though .
2007-03-01 15:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he isn't in love with you doesn't mean he can't date you or anything. maybe he has some one else but didn't tell you that. "he isn't that kind of guy" is used for every guy and for every excuse.....maybe he's not interested in you as a girlfriend anymore. get some guts and talk to him about it. what have you got to lose.....
2007-03-01 15:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you just need to leave him along he really sound like he
does not know what he want. if you have been back and forth
with this man. time to move on. other wise you will continue this
roller coater ride.
2007-03-01 15:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he sounds like he's all over tha place with what he wants, so just be friends.
2007-03-01 15:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by smthomas306 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋