2007-03-01 15:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Its alright to be nervous. Getting married is a huge step in life. Marriage is supposed to be looked at as a life-long commitment. I've changed my wedding plans twice....once for family financial problems (My dad is 100% disabled American veteran and my mom stays home to take care of him---$$$ is TIGHT!!!) and the second time was because I just didn't know if I was doing the right thing. I've finally set the date again and this time I'm sticking with it. Good Luck and God Bless!!
2007-03-01 15:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by colorfulswanson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to respond to your questions: are you able to do a vow renewal? sure. this is an particularly rapid and casual ceremony. Make all judgements approximately this and any social gathering to stay with as a spouse and not as a bride. You have been a bride 3 years in the past and now you're an old married couple. it may desire to injury you socially and professionally to have a gown up social gathering to faux any diverse. A 2nd ceremony? No. You had a marriage the day you married your perfect buddy, and that became into your determination. remorseful approximately would not erase that. you are able to invite your loved ones and additionally you are going to be able to positioned on any gown you like, however bridal lace could be strange and additionally you may desire to no longer have a veil or prepare. you may desire to opt for a colour and cut back it is unquestionably flattering on you. you will have a appealing cake and a social gathering constrained in basic terms by utilising your funds and mind's eye. you in basic terms would not assume presents nor have any of the bridal issues like tossing the bouquet. No first dance or dance with dad, and no one is imparting you with away. you do not have attendants or pre-vow events or something like that. this is extra like an anniversary social gathering fairly. no one has to manage the vows, and because there are no longer any expert papers to sign, absolutely everyone could desire to do it or you do no longer choose absolutely everyone. in simple terms examine or recite notwithstanding vows you prefer to a minimum of one yet another.. perfect needs.
2016-10-02 05:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...we actually moved the date up by over a year and planned the wedding in 1 month. I honestly dont understand what there is to be nervous about? you were ok to say yes and accept the ring werent you? and now you get too nervous to actually get married? if you love the person then marry them? its not like if thing really dont work out your still stuck with the person. you could always seperate or divorce if necessary...though I dont believe in divorce. my anniversary is coming up next weekend and I couldnt be happier with my husband.
2007-03-02 02:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I refused to even discuss it for the first 3 months of our engagement, and after 3 months of therapy, had a sudden change of heart and got very into it ... now I'm just kind of in the middle ... so I wouldn't say I postponed the plans really, just stalled them!
2007-03-01 16:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Advice Please 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no i haven't but you know what, the thought always comes to mind whenever i think about how my wedding would be like, and the fear of backing on that day horrifies me, as well as to post pone it if not run for it!!
hope this never occurs by the way!
2007-03-02 00:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but I thought about it 100 times and even tried to pick fights with my poor husband to see if he would call it off. :) it is all ok in the end!
2007-03-01 15:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at your age, do you think you know enough to make this commitment for the rest of your life?
2007-03-01 21:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by alberthastings3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-01 23:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋