I AM A GUY who has quite a bit on my shoulders and back. Should I do something about it. I have a great body except for ....that.
It would be very hard to keep it trimmed, hard to keep it waxed, and expensive to keep it lasered. Should I even go to the trouble?
2007-03-01 15:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd date a guy who was considered "hairy". Try getting it waxed. Plenty of guys do that now...and it won't grow back for like 3 weeks. Remember, girls aren't perfect either. We spend a lot of money getting things waxed!
2007-03-01 15:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find someone who loves you for who you are then you shouldn't go to all that time and money wasted just because you might take your shirt off a couple times a week and you have a bit of hair on your back!!!! To me personally I like a guy who is natural and doesn't wax his chest or back it makes them look more like a man and shows that he isn't the type of guy who would rather spend 5 hours getting ready in the morning then letting me do that!!!!
2007-03-01 15:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has started growing back hair, shoulder hair, and even ear hair. Yuck! And that's what he says as well.
He asks me to pluck or wax what he can't reach on his back. I gladly do it. I love when he's practically hairless.
Guys' body hair ranks up there with stds!
Ask yourself this...would you be turned on if a girl had facial hair or didn't shave her armpits or legs, etc.?
If you like not impressing the opposite sex then be my guest grow to be as hairy as your little heart desires!
I think most guys would be willing to pay the price of waxing or laser treatment for the companionship of a woman.
Please don't take offense...I'm just trying to help.
2007-03-01 15:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by jess119mah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend has the same problem but I have learned to love him the way he is.
Just make sure you keep your neck shaved good so at least when you have a decent shirt on you don't look like an animal. As for the rest of your back--depending on your girlfriend and on how dark the hair is, you should just leave it or go to a consultation at a place that offers electrolysis and see if it would be an option for you.
2007-03-01 15:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am almost 25.....but im answering anyway. I personally, prefer less hair, but i wouldnt hold it against someone who has hair like that. People cant help how they are made. If it is a problem for you, you should get rid of it. Dont' change yourself to satisfy other people. Or, if you get into a relationship one day and you and your significant other decide to do something about, then go for it. As of right now, only do it if its worth it to you.
2007-03-01 15:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Robin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl, my friends and i have talked about this,some girls don't mind, but hair my drive some girls crazy. If your with a girl who doesn't like it. I would suggest Nair, it something you do on your own, and when you have time to do it.
2007-03-01 17:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mz. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHen I was younger I always thought hairy men were gross even to see a hairy chest and I would pretend to dry reach.
Once you get to know a guy and you like him for who he is etc, none of that matters.
My bf has a hairy chest and back and It doesn't even faze me as I love him for him.
2007-03-01 15:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a girl loves you for who you are and what you give to your relationship,the hair won't matter at all. you sound like a very caring guy,one who would give their best,so don't worry.we all have something we hope our partner overlooks.
2007-03-01 15:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nair it im sure you know someone that would do it for you i used to shave my cousins back for him with an electric mushtache trimmer everyonce in a while when he needed someone to do it
2007-03-01 15:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by tabethamarie2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋