Please tell me how to keep him from doing this. I can't stand the pain and it hasn't even happened yet. IM me at me66053 on yahoo
2007-03-01 15:26:03 · 12 answers · asked by Selena H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know cuz he "needs to think" "it isn't my fault the relationship is bad it is all him" and then i asked if he was going to break up with me and he said he had to think about it and he would let me know over breakfast in the morning
2007-03-01 15:30:36 · update #1
Hun, I understand what you're going through. I also knew when my ex-bf wanted to dump and I just let him. He was ignoring me for a week, then he wanted to "meet up", I was telling everyone, "I'm gonna get dumped tomorrow". My sister was joking & she said, "if u get dumped go to Second Cup & buy yourself that new chocolate fudge" haha. First, try to not freak out. I went, he did dump me, but I NEVER let him see me cry. I went home & cried. I never called him or did anything. I let him live with his decision. Then he started to contact me on msn, he never wanted me back but he just wants to be friends. Hun, just please remember that : "There isn't any way you can hold on to something that wants to go." He wants to end it & there isn't anything you can do. You can however end it first* I regret not ending it first, with my ex. If you can't do that, & will let HIM end it, just remember that it's not the end of the world. I know you will feel hurt, but remember if he's leting you go then he is NOT the guy for you. So if he dumps you tomorrow, have self-respect, show him that you CAN live without him. This is a blessing in disguise, don't cry over an asshole.
Take care & God bless:)
2007-03-01 15:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey unfurtunately there is nothing you can do. try to talk to him and if he doesn't want to hear it than don't even try remember this, that what goes around comes around, please don't stress because you are just making it harder for you hun. just stop for a second and breath; think about things i mean it's hard to admit it but your acting like if it is the last coca cola on earth, don't sweat it and think that he will be the one missing it because he is not better than you and who knows and remember that some things happens for a reason good luck sweety.
Just give him all the time in the world but make sure that when he wants to come back you are not there since you are not a toy.
2007-03-01 23:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by D1NONLY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, ask yourself what has caused the break up in the first place?
Did you cheat on him or did he get tired of you?
You must find out the main source of break up first before resolving any issue.
2007-03-01 23:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that he is going to break up with you??
2007-03-01 23:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" someone stay with you, you're very desperate. Maybe this is for the better because you are very needy.
2007-03-01 23:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey but its best to let go then have him not love you and cheat on you later on. i will hurt alot but you must let go.
2007-03-01 23:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mama of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Just stop caring. Dr. House does it damn well.
2007-03-01 23:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Think. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Accept it and move on.
2007-03-01 23:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. if he wanted to be with you he won't break up with you.
2007-03-01 23:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Peachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop him and you shouldn't want to love somebody that doesn't want love you.
2007-03-01 23:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by lindar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋