Do you guys think our relationship is over? I am only 29 and he was my high school sweetheart and I have never had any other sexual partners, Lately I feel like he does not care and am very tempted to cheat!! Please help.
2007-03-01 15:25:58 · 7 answers · asked by Proud Mama of 2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, consider how important this relationship is to you. It must first be worth it to save.
Second, think about what it was that made you fall in love with him in the first place. What was it about him back then that attracted you to him? What did you guys enjoy talking about? Doing togeather?
Third, it's time for a heart to heart. You are not the only member of the relationship, so you by yourself cannot fix it. If you are worried about the relationship talk to him about it (though you don't need to mention your desire to cheat on him). Talk with him about what you have just been thinking about and discuss what has changed about these things.
Can these changes (or at least some of them) be unchanged? Are both of you willing to make the unchanges? Are they worth makeing? Are there new things that the two of you can find common interest in?
It might also be helpful for the two of you to think about what you like in each other now and compare it to what it was in the past.
2007-03-01 17:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by BoranJarami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, is time to set him free, and if he comes back it's meant to be............Really, you are entering your sexual prime, and you want to explore what else might be out there. It is not that you guys don't love each other. U both just probably need some time apart to decide what it is u want for the rest of your life. I bet if you tell him that you want to take a break, he will feel the same way. Don't cheat, you will hate yourself forever, and may lose him forever and ever. He could be your soulmate, but you need to play the field for a while (responsibly) before you are sure. Talk to him, Take a break, and please don't cheat!! The guilt would eat you up. I know. Good Luck.
2007-03-01 15:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u have lost interest in him. Break up with him and look for someone else. Be it a steady bf or a fling. Doesn't matter as long as you don't cheat when ur in a relationship.
2007-03-01 15:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's over. Chances are if a relationship goes on for over three years without a commitment, it isn't going to last.
2007-03-01 20:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are tempted to cheat then you might want to end it with him. Trust me, it is definitley better end it with him, than be unfaithful. Rumors spread and you dont want to be known as a cheater. End it and find someone else!
GOOD LUCK
~*J*~
2007-03-01 15:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by chrisbnjordiet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him not us.
You never know what could be going on.
2007-03-01 15:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him!
2007-03-01 15:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋