What does it mean when you call and you get no response? What does it mean when he doesn't call you for two days? What does it mean when he dont put in as much as he used to?What does it mean when the guy you are seeing tells everyone that your are the one? What does it mean? What does it mean??
What does it mean when you did all you can to make him happy, and make sure he was taken care of? What does it mean when you are in debt because of him and waiting for him to pay you back which he may not? What does it mean when all you can do is think of him? What does it mean when when you have no one else?
2007-03-01 15:09:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats does it mean when he see me and fear me talking to another guy? What does it mean when he suggest we move in together and start a family? What does it mean?
2007-03-01 15:24:21 · update #1
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2007-03-01 15:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by THe questioneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn’t answer his phone AND not call you for two days (and has no reason), then he was avoiding you. If he doesn't put in what he used to, then he's probably losing or lost interest or figures you'll do it for him so he's doesn't have to. He’s probably only telling the people that YOU know that you’re the one and not anyone else because his behavior is inconsistent.
If you did all you can to make him happy and made sure he was taken care of and are now in debt because of him, then you sound like a co-dependent who is unwilling to accept the reality of the situation. You’re only thinking about him because you haven't allowed yourself to do otherwise. If you have no one else, then this is the life that you made for yourself and you can change that. Co-dependent behavior often builds a life around someone else and then when the relationship falls, that persons whole world comes crashing down.
Best thing for you to do is to stop giving your power away, go out with other people to take your mind off of things, and realize that you’re worth more than some guy who sounds like he's using you and doesn't appreciate you. The only good thing you mentioned was that he tells others you're the one, which seriously leads to the likely possibility that he's using you and is selfish. Sounds like he's only saying the things that he KNOWS you want to hear to keep you around. Doesn't sound like he wants you but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. This is not love, it's controlling and manipluative. These are things players say. Is this what your worth?
2007-03-01 23:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hrm
well
just from this he doesnt sound like a very good guy
even though he says t people that ur the one
how do u kno if he means it?
so
when u call and get no response....there are many things it could be....dont jump to any conclusions
and doenst call u for 2 days?..not a big deal
3q.....mayb the relationship is getting boring for him
it sounds like u love and care about him
but if he's not treatingu right
let him go
2007-03-01 23:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure full of questions. Where to begin/ If he isn't answering calls he obviously is with someone else and only wants you when he feels like it. If he isn't putting as much in as he used to he doesn't feel too concerned about your feelings. He probably went back with his wife. I know how you feel I'm married to someone just like that. Why else would I be on Yahoo Answers at this time of night? You have it bad when all you can think of is him though wish I had sssomeone who felt like that about me.
2007-03-01 23:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're one out of 6 billion on this planet.
It also means that this planet has much bigger things to worry about, like how we're gonna stop Bush from inviting hate from foreign nations, killing our young soldiers, and putting us a deficit too huge to describe.
Oh yeah, let's not forget AIDS in Africa.
Global warming?
Drunk driving?
The fact that we don't understand why our universe has no edge, no center, and carries atoms that we don't understand?
There are bigger things.
2007-03-01 23:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Think. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are dating a loser!
He doesn't want to talk to you, he is trying to forget all about you, he is over the relationship, that he thought you were the one, he is confused, he is confused.
You tried too hard, that your a sucker and should of never given him any money, that you are in love with someone that is no good for you, that you are lonely.
Don't settle for less than you deserve just cos you are lonely and don't want to be by yourself.
2007-03-01 23:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are in a bad relationship. Tell this guy it's over and that you want your money back. Stop letting him use you and making you stress when he's the one who is obviously not interested in the relationship.
2007-03-01 23:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it means you are really hung up on this guy and that he isn't that hung up on you. Doesn't sound like he's interested. Think about making yourself happy without a guy first. Then good things will come your way. And a good guy. Love yourself first. A guy second. That way, no matter what, you will feel good about yourself.
2007-03-01 23:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by NORTH WEST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's just using you.
2007-03-01 23:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..not to hurt you or anything but it seems that from what you said that he has kind of lost his interest. my advice is move on and find someone else becuase he isnt worth it. if someone doesnt like you, or you dont think that they do...they arent worth it at all. trust me.
2007-03-01 23:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by chrisbnjordiet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not that into you...move on hunny...happens to guys way more often to girls..just find a new guy
2007-03-01 23:13:02 · answer #11 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋