i know all men look at porno, but my husband has lately been looking up rape sites, and forced sex porno sites. its sick to me and all the other women i have talked to. i tried to talk to him about it and have him get help because i think he is addicted to sex and porno. Anyways the question is " Is it normal, or has any other guy ever looked at this or find yourself getting off by looking at it? He says "its not real" so it doesn't matter, is this true?
2007-03-01 14:59:14 · 9 answers · asked by cassie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personaly don't get off looking at that stuff I'm not much into s&m either but its probably not about rape its about power. Maybe he feels like he doesn't have as much power as he would like. Try to let him control things more in the bedroom and maybe that will help. Oh and all men are addicted to sex and all guys look at some form of porn its just natural.
2007-03-01 15:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by zuse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An interest in BDSM is perfectly normal.
It is VERY unfortunate that you told him you think it is sick. You're way out of line with that, and you're going to have to do a lot of work to repair your marriage.
Normally the right thing to do would be to ask him what attracts him to these things, what fantasies he might have along those lines that are more realistic and safe that you could participate in, and so on.
But he very likely will not trust you in such a conversation now. You'll have to do a lot of work to earn his trust back now that you've behaved so badly.
I suggest that you start by apologizing emphatically and often. Your marriage is on the line here.
2007-03-01 16:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't look at porno, so your first statement is wrong. I would say your husband is into some dangerous, sick things. It matters.
2007-03-01 15:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy could have his lady in the front seat, so its no longer his lady buddy. It looks like he nonetheless has thoughts for you. the sole thank you to be responsive to is to talk to him on my own. make certain you get an truthful answer.
2016-10-02 05:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is true that is sick and some1 like that needs to be corrected and needs help immediatly watch him around kids is all that i can say HE IS SICK in the head
2007-03-01 15:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at it and it's normal, but not if its rape or something bad.
2007-03-01 15:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good sign. And not ALL men look at pornography- I don't.
2007-03-01 16:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by fslcaptain737 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to a therapist..... and quick!
2007-03-01 15:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you give him best sexula comforts
2007-03-01 15:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋