So what if you're not sure about someone intentions???

Question

i.e. My new guy friend. Sometimes, I think he's really not feeling me. Then sometimes, I think he's holding back - scared that he may say something that will offend me. For instance he called me when he got off of work on tuesdat. He was very tired. He said that his company worked him very hard from 7:30am - 2:15pm. He gets off @ 3. So he asked me what time do I get off? and I told him 6 and it was like a pause. Like he wanted to ask me to stop by after work. I was going to say, why whats up? but chickened out too. I think we're both scared. He and my friend's fiance works together and he told my friend to tell me to call him and she sent his # through email. We were at work. I was questioning her about him. At the time I was more curious then anything.

Answer 1

Hey, it's scary getting into a new relationship.

Relax and treat him like a friend.

Once he feels comfortable around you he will relax too!

Don't get into the "he said/she said" with your friend and her fiance' ! It's real easy for relationship to die a painful death when others are you information source.