Your boyfriend just broke up with you, you are sitting on a bench in the local park crying. Another guy who you know likes you spots you crying. He walks over to you puts his arm around you and tries to comfort you. What do you do/think?
2007-03-01 14:46:11 · 9 answers · asked by trev 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Didn't do this just saw a girl doing this and thought about doing it.
2007-03-01 14:46:41 · update #1
K woah younger couple right here.
2007-03-01 14:52:49 · update #2
Trying to comfort her
2007-03-01 14:55:33 · update #3
id probably find it comforting and turn so i could have just someone hold me for a while... it feels great just to have a shoulder to cry on... depending on what state i was in i might do something a lil crazy like kiss him...
but just a warning: dont take anything a girl does in this emotional state as meaning anything because they are incredibly vulnerable and their brains arent working quite right. if she does make a move... ask her about her intentions after she has time to think.
2007-03-01 14:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really sweet of him and i'm grateful for the comfort but have to wonder if he thinks this means he now has claims to me or something or if he's really being nice or just using the opportunity to get clos eto me while i'm vunerable.
It would really depend on if i liked the guy back. If i did i might ask him to walk/drive me home/to my car/ to a pub for a drink.
2007-03-01 22:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, it depends on your motives. She is vulnerable and you shouldn't take advantage of that. But if you really just want to comfort her and aren't trying to get in her pants, then give her a hug.
2007-03-01 22:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by lisa M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he's going to be doing her later that night. He's preying on her vulnerability and most likely will end up in bed together. If not that night very soon.
2007-03-01 22:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I go and cry on my own shoulder. I'll talk to the guy later and date him only after I'm ready!
2007-03-01 22:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Trapped in a Box 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as your comfortable with him let him comfort you. its always nice to have someone who cares.
2007-03-01 23:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he was being sweet and comforting.I hope that is why you were thinking of doing this.
2007-03-01 22:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by april showers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much you liked your ex, and the guy your talking to, if you like the guy your talking to then why not? but if you don't then don't do it.. . it'd be stupid.
2007-03-01 22:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by R.R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is worth a chance.
2007-03-01 22:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋