I really like this girl and I can't get her off my mind no matter how hard I try!......?

Question

I've known this girl that I really like a lot for about a year now, and We've been hanging out lately and I'm just falling in love with her because I feel as though she is the one I want to be my girlfriend, she is smart, funny, hot, and has a good personality. I know she knows I like her, because i've done a lot for her to show her how much I like her and I did ask her out yesterday and she said "I don't know, its hard, I like you as a friend though", I know that means that we are just friends and she dosen't want anything more right now, but Its been really hard getting her off my mind. She does have some personal issues that she is probably dealing with right now which might be the reason why she said its hard. She is depressed, she isn't getting along with her parents, she gets in trouble at school a lot, and she is in the national guard, I just wish I could be there for her through these bad times, but I can't ever talk to her because she can't use her phone because of her parents

My question is even though I want to be there for her and can't what can I do to make her life easier? I also want to know what I need to do to get her off my mind its kind of depressing because I like her a lot! and yet she dosen't feel the same way

Answer 1

wow you sound really familiar its scaring me. anywaz the samething happened to me you have to be greatful that she is still your friend cherish the moments you have with her even though she doesnt want to be more. who knows her mind can change one day and see the wonderful person you are.
i wish you the best