i'm a healthy heterosexual guy yet i find women very annoying and their feminine traits very unattractive.
therefore, i have absolutely no interest in having 'relationships' with women other than sexual intercourse. is there something wrong with me?
p.s. no i'm not gay
2007-03-01 14:24:31 · 35 answers · asked by tom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you are just fed up and annoyed... look at your standards of the women you have dated and reevaluate what you might find attractive. Not all women are that annoying.
2007-03-01 14:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by nease174 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you just aren't picking up the right women. It's a bit odd though that you find feminine traits unattractive...for most men it's the feminine traits that make women attractive.
Maybe you just don't wait long enough for the women your with to be comfortable enough to drop some of them. Make no mistake, after a woman has been in a relationship for a while and is more comfortable around a guy, she's not always so girly and feminine, when you are only dating, it's all about impressions.
Perhaps you should give a woman more of a chance to loosen up before you move onto the next one. Failing that you could always pick up a transexual, then you'd have the best of both worlds. ;) jokes. Seriously though i think you either need to change where you're looking and the criteria you have, give the relationship a bit more time, or learn to live with the fact that women are feminine and are going to do some things that annoy the crap out of you.
Good luck, i hope you find what your looking for.
2007-03-01 14:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are realistic. And this is coming from a woman, who knows that alot of women do have some very annoying traits Not everyone is designed for relationships. I have to say though, that there probably is a woman out there that is perfect for you, and doesn't have all of those annoying feminine traits. Each of us is very different from one another, and some women just go along with that goofy feminine profile because they think that men like it. If you take the time to get to know them, and let them know that you don't like all the silly giggling and shoe buying crap, she'll take off the shell, and cut it out. You need someone serious, probably with a career that doesn't leave her enough time to act girly. And even if that never happens, there's nothing wrong with never settling down either.
2007-03-02 06:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there's something very wrong... Men normally like the feminine traits... I see you like them enough to have sex with them... maybe one day when you get old and lonely you will appreciate a woman more and long for their company... specially when you can't have sex anymore.... it's better find that woman NOW rather than when you're old and wrinkled
2007-03-01 14:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you well enough to really tell,but you could have commitment problems or it could be that you are just young and don't want anything serious now.Maybe you just need to meet the right girl.Not all of them are girly girls.I know a few hot tomboyish types.I like to call them "Marys".As in the movie "There's Something About Mary".They're a little more rare,but they're out there.
2007-03-01 14:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by cultureslum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're haven't given yourself a real chance yet.
But how could you say you find feminine traits unattractive and you're not gay...hmm...well it doesn't seem you're gay but maybe you'll open up sometime...there's always a lot of fish in the sea.
2007-03-01 14:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well iam a girl and well sometimes i get emtional but most of the time iam pretty tuff.and if guys pick on me because i am short or i am over weight pretty much i stand up for myself not all female are like this.and nothing is wrong with u how about i show u how tuff ican be. trust me iam like no other girl in the world .because iam smart and a tough ***.
2007-03-01 14:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by sara 19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you maybe hanging out with the wrong girls just becuase they are hott does not mean they are fun to be around. Try to find someone that you have no sexual intrest in and get to know them you'll be suprised how cool girls can be when you get to know them.
2007-03-01 14:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by TCUhornfrog87 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you would prefer to date someone a bit less feminine. Try to meet someone more like what your looking for.
2007-03-01 14:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you do only know annoying women - that's okay, most of us are like that. Get out more, meet someone different.
2007-03-01 14:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by lyarnil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋