what do i do if we r perfect together but never r together stay or not to stay that is the question ???????

Question

ok we have met 1 time an we talk on the fone every day if we can but this is it he is in the marines an he just started his classes an he is gonna be there for a few months then he may have to move to another locattions either closer or further from me we are wonderful together but the twist is my ex wants me back he wont give up i dont want him but i give in alot of the time but newayz should i stay wit him or break up it him becuz of our situation thanx so much

Answer 1

it depends on how u met the guy, u know like internet or dating service etc... and dont worry about ur ex.... he is ur EX and that is the point, be strong, dont let ur ex get the best of you, that all that he wants

Answer 2

I think what u need to do is to firgure out what u want first and get ur self together before even thinking of either one of those guys and dont sale ur self short, if he really wants u the way u do him he will marry u and relocate u with him and trust me he cant help what the corp say do he have to do it and do it right then. And as far as the ex, what I feel is the same thing that broke us up the first time will break us up again so no need to go backwards................... good luck

Answer 3

u should tell ur ex u just want to be friends and if he cant handle that then u guys cant talk to each other anymore and as for the guy in the marines as long as he doesnt have a wife or ex wife or any kids u should try and see what happens between u two before saying it quits

Answer 4

Stay with the one who makes you smile, and is honest, has goals, not psychotic and responsible. I've been with my boyfriend for over two years and the first 6 months we hadn't seen each other. However... I knew him 5 years earlier... He was a summer fling, then my friend then my love and now the man I'm inlove with.