i met a man online in a chat room and we have been talking for about a year. it has always been just a friends. we have never met. at the time we met we were both dating some one. well about a month ago we both broke up with the person we were with. he is from my state and is moving back. we are plaing on meeting up. about a week ago he told me he wanted to kiss me, and i told him i wanted to kiss him too. well ever since then he hasnt talked to me at all. he reads my emails but doenst respond, all i say in them is cant wait to see you, or ill say just thought i would say hi. what is this 29 year old man thinking? please help
oh and im 23
2007-03-01 14:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm generally against meeing people on the internet. Unless it was on an approved dating site or something. If you've been talking for a year I would say you know alot ABOUT him, but still may not KNOW him. Now that its time to meet, he may be getting cold feet because some of the things he's told you may not be completely true. You know what I mean, like now he has to deliver on what hes told you. If not, I'd say hes just nervous cause its finally come down to seeing each other in real life. The best thing to do is to come right out and ask him what his intentions are. That will put your mind to rest and let you know whats going on instead of driving yourself crazy girl.
Best of luck to you... and please be safe.
2007-03-01 14:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU only chatted on line< never spent any time with him< in the flesh> > On line- he could say anything. Since he doesn't respond anymore to your emails- forget it, and move on.
2007-03-01 22:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that this 29 year old guy hasnt been serious with u. when he said he wanted to kiss u he might have been joking. when u said u wanted to too, it might have scared him off.
2007-03-01 22:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by punkprincessgd_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is playing a control game...... be careful
2007-03-01 22:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sronce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's playing games. Be careful!!!!
2007-03-01 22:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what he's thinking- maybe he got scared- or maybe you were smothering him.
2007-03-01 22:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS is the big problem??? Oh please, go get a life and if he calls or not, so what.
2007-03-01 22:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋