my man allows me to chat with other men and some times meet up with them if they are local. yet some times i feel like he wants me to find some one else cause he cant always commient to things going in our realtionship
2007-03-01 14:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by JoJosGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it is not cheating because you are in an "open" relationship. that's why it's called that or else you guys would be just be in a formal relationship.
2007-03-01 14:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by RARE GEM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not cheating if your in an open relationship if you talk to or see other guys. But why would you waste your time being in a "open reltionship" when you oviously have no trouble attracting other guys. If this guy cant commit to you, drop him. Your better off finding someone who has the time to be a man and support a healthy relationship. Why should you have to worry about what he is doing with other women at the same time! Maybe he wants you to find someone else but doesnt have the heart to cut things off or just isnt sure. If you guys are sleeping together, maybe he is using you for just that. GOODLUCK
2007-03-01 14:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by tish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think open relationships are a waste of time; either you want to be with the man/woman you're with or you don't. If he's willing to share you with other men/women then he probably doesn't care for you the way you needed to be cared for. And it isn't that I'm not open-minded, I'm just calling it like i see it.
2007-03-01 14:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open relationship, open legs. That's the way I see it. If he can't commit to you then you're free to do whatever with whoever. However, if you do that he may never want to commit to you. What a catch 22.
2007-03-01 14:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BASiCALLY YES. i DONT THiNK ANY GUYS WHO ARE SERiOUS ABOUT THEiR RELATiONSHiP WOULD LET THEiR WOMAN SEE OTHER PEOPLE. THAT'S LiKE TELLiNG YOU TO GET ANOTHER MAN YET YOU'RE STiLL TOGETHER. OPEN RELATiONSHiP iS ONLY FOR PEOPLE WHO JUST WANNA MESS AROUND OR BE A ****-BUDDY OR FRiENDS WiTH BENiFiTS. iF YOU WANT A SERiOUS RELATiONSHiP WiTH THiS GUY AND HE DONT....TAKE A HiNT HONEY...DROP HiM OUT OF YOUR LiFE CUS HE OBViOUSLY DONT WANNA BE PART OF iT iN THE END. (iM NOT TRYNA BE RUDE)
2007-03-01 14:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not cheating because you are in an open relationship.
2007-03-01 14:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Wham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want it to be an open relationship, then yes ... its cheating.
2007-03-01 14:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's urging you on then I would leave him, he doesn't care about you
2007-03-01 14:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋