3 weeks ago
were in high school she is new at school and we talk once... i started the conversation saying its cold outside when she was about to go outside and get a snack out of the snack machine... and i stayed inside by myself and she comes back in and starts to talk to me... we talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church... she told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it... so she now goes to the public school... she also said that our class feels like it's summer school... are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work... i was leaving early right when break was over... she told me she was leaving in 2 hours... anyways, she said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not... and that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions.... i thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking... why do you think she called her self a loser for? she sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser... maybe she thought i was bored with our conversation... Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. Maybe she really didn't. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. She could of ask me if the door was lock. I mean I was right next to her when she said it. Last week I haven't went to school for 4 days, but I went today and we both made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds, but her friend was right by the door when i walk in the class... so idk... than as we went on break she was waiting right by the door and i think she was looking at me to see if i would talk to her... but i didnt i walk right past her... i heard her outside yelling on the phone probably a family member... i was inside... i could hear her yelling cause i was right by the outside door... than she came inside cause it was cold outside... she talk on the phone across from me for about 2-3 minutes... than she went right back outside and talk... when she was done talking on the phone... she came inside with her head down... than she look up and look at me in a moody way... than she look back down really quick...she didnt give me a mean look... but she gave me a look like she was kinda mad or upset... shes not shy but i am... and i dont think she knows i am since we dont really know each other... i havent went to school this whole week, cause of state testing...
2007-03-01 14:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you guys even have classes or do you just go in and out the door and talk lock and unlock them and talk on cell phones? I'm just kidding. It sounds to me like you both like each other but are afraid to come out and say it and she probably doesn't realize that you're shy just yet. She may want you to talk to her more. I don't think you've done anything wrong and she may have just called herself a loser so that you'd tell her the opposite. I don't know. I think YOU obviously really like...so just walk up to her and tell her you do. Just for one day forget your shyness. The worst thing she can do is say no or laugh and if she does that then she's not worthy of you anyhow.
2007-03-01 14:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well. It sounds like she's going through alot in her life right now, which is probably why she called herself a loser. She was probably feeling awkward around you, and said it for no reason.
It sounds like she likes you, but is afraid to show it, so she's acting like she doesn't. I think you should ask her if you can talk to her on the next break. Just say you looked upset the other day when you got off the phone. I was just wondering if everything's okay.
That will give her the opportunity for you to find out what's going on with her, and will show her that you care. That will probably give her the confidence to be more open to letting you know she likes you back.
Good Luck.
2007-03-01 22:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like the type of girl that likes to be chased and likes alot of attention. i dont think she really menat anything when she called herself a loser i think she was just talking to be talkin. if you are interested in her then when you see her even if shes not looking at you make sure you speak to her say hi, hey or something. then after awhile maybe try asking for her phone number or email address so you guys can start communicating outside of school. do you know her guy friend? if so maybe you can ask him for more info.
2007-03-01 22:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by miss thang 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're wrong about this girl. I think that when it comes to you she's proabably just as shy as you are.
You should talk to her as often as you can to get her to try to come out of her shell around you. By the sounds of it, theres something going on in her home life that she's stressing or embarrassed about, so i don't think you need to worry if she seems upset sometimes. I really think that if you just keep trying to talk to her and be friendly with her you'll make some progress.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 22:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Woah - ok, ya'll aren't even dating and she's already giving you attitude?!? Do you really want to start a relationship with someone who already gets mad so easily? If you really do still like her then you need to show her. Talk to her, give her compliments, smile. If she's that insecure, then this should give her a boost to her confidence.
2007-03-01 22:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is why is she ignoring me and i think its becuase she likes you. If u have a good gf ( girl thats a friend
) ask her if she can makes friends with her and sorta be a wing man.
2007-03-01 22:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for heavensake just talk to her. if you are really interested in her, you need to ACT interested in her.... at least strike up a conversation with her to feel her out.... maybe shes just really shy. oh yeah, and all girls hate something about themselves, maybe she likes you but was just really nervous about talking to ya.... good luck!
2007-03-01 22:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by lil miss blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she was insecure when she was at the school at first and now she is more comfortable and doesnt want to talk to u
2007-03-01 22:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds bi-polar
2007-03-01 22:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by sophia o 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it will pass!!
2007-03-01 22:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by THE ACTS OF POWER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋