I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now, and we're very happy. The only thing is both of us have jealousy issues. With him, he will even get jealous if I'm just at a party with other guys there. He gets very angry, but will soon later apologize and pour his heart out to me. With me, I do get jealous but I tolerate much more than he does. The thing is I get jealous, but I'm never worried he'll cheat on me, if that makes sense. The same goes for him. We've talked about it many times and we even tell each other EVERYTHING, but it doesn't seem to be taking away the jealousy. In the first couple months of our relationship we each made our small mistakes, but never cheated on one another. I know I personally have a huge problem with trust, and I know that may be a factor. Like I said, I get jealous, but I do trust that he wouldn't do anything. We trust each other, but I don't know what else to do to get past our jealousy.
2007-03-01 13:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by Jess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
build trust w/ each other and show dat the other person they have nuthin to wry bout b/c ur faithful
2007-03-01 14:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u might wanna work on the jealousy thing and so should ur boyfriend. If that doesnt work out ya might wanna split because u and him cant be jealous all the time. But I'm sure yall would work it out cause youve been together for 2yr!
2007-03-01 22:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it all comes down to trust!! if you don't trust one another then the relationship won't work. It seems he has more of a problem than you. You have to communicate with him, and sort out some obvious insecurities he has.
Or the another way, never give the opposite sex a reason to flirt with you.
2007-03-01 22:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweet101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is not good :o(( I found I was less jealous as I got older. Have you any reason to mistrust him? If no then you need to work on your own insecurity issues, if yes then you need time away from him
2007-03-01 22:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read "staying sane " by Dr. Raj Peraud. It will argue that its a good thing
2007-03-05 12:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by b.hole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your jealous cause your insecure. you don't want him to talk to someone who's prettier, funnier (etc) than you. you want him all to yourself which is bad. if you got married to him you probably wouldn't want female relatives around him or spending time with him.
2007-03-01 22:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋