im having a very hard time right now because my boyfriend of two years and 3 months just broke up with me. We knew each other for about 3 years now. We have had a WONDERFUl relationship and we basically *thought* (i still do) that we were the one for each other...we did everything together and i felt my 110% around him...
For about a year, we argued a lot....and constantly fought about the most stupidest things, but deep down in the end after each argument we'd be back together and things wwoul dbe good for at least a week or so until another argument came. However, whenever we did have our good moments, we just knew we were meant to be. I could never imagine sharing my life with anyone else..we have been through so much.....
He basically told me he wante to be alone for now, and cant handle a relationship and is tired or arguing. I keep asking if i have a chance to be with him ever again but he just says 'i dont know'. I was wonder if you guys think he'll get back with me.
2007-03-01 13:38:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not if you don't leave him alone, have you ever heard the saying, absence makes the hart grow fonder? as long as you call him and put him on the spot like that all he will think of is why he needs not to be in a relationship right now. give him his space and let him see if he misses you, and if not then why would you want to waste your time on a guy who does not want to be with you. Your to young to be in a relationship anyways, go out and date a few guys, and find out what kind of guy you really like and want to be with, you have plenty of time later in life for a commitment!!
2007-03-01 13:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, right now he is feeling free. Free of all the turmoil you two have had. I don't want to down grade your pain but he probably is going out and having fun without you. You got to give him his space and let him breathe. Now , YOU need to get your mind right, as they say, clean yourself up(as my Daddy says)and put your game face on. This is the true and only test of love in relationships. Absence! If it is meant for you to to be together, He will be back for good, he also might be back for , well you know..THATS WHEN YOU HAVE GOT TO BE AT YOUR BEST AND STRONGEST AND DON
T SHOW A LICK OF FEAR OR SADDNESS! Take it from some one who had been with a man for over a decade and he walked out and i did the same thing..boo boo do we have a chance baby and he would say the same, I don't know, maybe but all in all he was moving in with a woman he met at work. To make a long story short, I chased all over my town looking for him trying to see him and when and only when I said to myself(NO MATTER HOW MUCH MY HEART HURT AND BOY THERE IS NO PHYSICAL PAIN THAT CAN COME CLOSE TO HEARTBREAK!)I wasn't going to call, try to see, think or ANYTHING ABOUT HIM AND LET HIM GO, was the only time he came back. The funny part is that took less time than me chasing his azz...lmao...but we are together right now and our relationship couldnt be better!
SO CHEER UP BABYGIRL, when they say life is to short, please believe me IT IS! He is going to do what he needs to for him right now and you asking and i hate to say it but begging isn't going to do anything but drive him away. DO WHAT EVER YOU NEED TO DO TO KEEP HIM OFF YOUR MIND! Trust me when he is ready to talk he will and if not, GIRL THERE ARE SO MANY BEAUTIFUL MEN OUT THERE, that would love a sweet young lady! God Bless you Honey and I hope things get better for you! Remember,there are not only too many fish in the sea but so many good pebbles left on the beach, you just have to stop looking at the shiny one on the far rock and search through the other many beautiful colorful ones right under your nose
2007-03-01 14:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt it. Nobody wants to be with someone long term if all they do is argue all the time. Every once in a while is fine, but a weekly thing is just too much for most people to handle. True you guys had good times, but the bad sometimes outweigh the good.
2007-03-01 13:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, it's probably for the best that you two are not together anymore. My ex and I were together for 5 years and had the same thing happen to us. We were great after a fight, but after about a week another one would pop up. We remained great friends after, and do not fight anymore. sometimes the people you think that you are meant to be with are the people who are meant to be your best friends.
2007-03-01 13:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by canadian_cowgurl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say that my girl for three years now somehow fits you and we have similar relationship like you do. though i love being pampered by her love and attention and all the care one can ever ask for, i sometimes feel that im being choked. perhaps your boyfriend feel the same way that i do. so i seek space for myself to do the things i want to do without someone peeping through the details. i guess you must understand that at one point in time, one feels and needs to be left alone. give your boyfriend his space for now but be consistent in showing that care for him and your relationship. make him miss you too..
2007-03-01 13:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by spraytt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know I wish i could say yes but I would think after what he said and if you guys were fighting then mabe i think you should just hang tight, I may be wrong i've been wrong before. Dont be afraid to see other pepole but i understand if it is a little to soon.
2007-03-01 17:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a serious answer, the only person you can ask is a close friend of his who you trust - they're the best possible person to find this out from.
2007-03-01 13:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Testaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might... but it sounds like either he has found someone else he's interested in or that the fights you and him have are too much. Relationships are tough and marriages are tougher.
2007-03-01 13:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by Melt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it is meant to be then yea yall would be together. but right now he just needs to be away from all the arguing & fussin. move on for right now && if yall decide to get together again..go for it but for right now..just move on. hope that hopes.
2007-03-01 13:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by ---REBA--- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he feels pressured to move on..you know, if you guys were going out that long aybe, he feels like you guys werent going anywhere..like he felt his love was doing cirlces...you guys would fight then make yup, fight then make up, not to be mean but it does get old...but i can only hope for the best for you too. i hoped i helped your problem
2007-03-01 13:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋