This is the situation. I know a girl. We have fun talking to each other. When she first let me know that she had a bf it was the day after valentines day. She had asked me what I had done on v-day and when I returned the question, she told me about what her and her bf had done. She didn't sound all that enthusiastic about it and changed the subject quickly. We always make each other laugh/smile. I'm pretty sure that she wants to leave her bf for me because of how we interact. Trust me, it's not just a friend thing. She even agreed to go out with me. Tell me, is it wrong to hang with this girl and to be a contributor to her break-up even if I truly enjoy being with her?
2007-03-01 13:20:42 · 13 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u know, I hear people say, "If he/she loses interest in his/her mate for u then he/she might do it to u later." What people fail to realize is that people lose interest in their mates regardless of whether someone elses is tempting them. If u can make the experience enjoyable enough to that person then they won't want to leave. The world is full of temptations but people need to have priorties.
2007-03-01 13:50:46 · update #1
Is the girl married? Engaged? In a committed relationship? If not I don't think it's wrong... However she should break up with her boyfriend first so she doesn't hurt him....She has to be responsible for the break-up, not you...
2007-03-01 13:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are having more gun with each other than your others, than no, it's not wrong. You have to think about what she if going to feel like after she breaks up with her bf, she may feel guilty, and even though she doesn't want to be with him, guilt can make people do crazy things!! Ask her what she would do after her split with the other guy and if she could handle that
2007-03-01 21:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are in the wrong, but she needs to break up with her boyfriend before she goes out with you. If she doesn't then that should tell you what kind of a girl she is. Does she talk to you about her boyfriend? I mean how do you know she wants to break up? Just be careful. You might be the one who ends up getting hurt. Life is about taking chances. Just be prepared.
2007-03-01 21:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she's married would it be wrong. If you guys are feeling each other and she isn't interested in her current bf then by all means go for it.
2007-03-01 21:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah--it's wrong to the other man in the relationship.
What's going to say she's not going to lose interest in you once you two get together? If she's willing to lose interest in her boyfriend without much issue, she's not going to have any trouble doing the same to you.
2007-03-01 21:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what relationships are all about........ make ups and break ups. Just be prepared for the next guy that comes alone and she tells him how your V-day went.
2007-03-01 21:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong. its unfair to you AND the other guy. tell her you want to be more than friends but dont act on it until AFTER her and her bf break it off.
if this isnt making sense put yourself in her bf's shoes... you'll get it then.
best of luck.
2007-03-01 21:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel free to but just make sure he dont find out cuz my bf say me with someone i use to like or just dated he would kick there ***
2007-03-01 21:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave this girl alone because she doesn't know who she wants
2007-03-01 21:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by alicia w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend for now!
2007-03-01 21:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋